for the hope of it all;

For all its faults Tumblr has truly ruined all other social media for me because my friends all have Instagram and are all trying to get me on Instagram more but every time I open Instagram there are like fifteen things screaming for my attention and when I get over myself long enough to start scrolling it's like. Where is my chronological dash. Where is the following-only option. Who are these people. Why are there so many videos. Everyone is screaming at me. And then before I know it I'm thirty minutes into scrolling and I haven't seen a single thing that I actually care about. At least on Tumblr when I see stuff I don't care about I know someone I follow has found a new interest.

I'm allowed to be a little parasocial because I am famously normal

I do think that when a female celebrity has a less famous (and less rich) boyfriend and the internet makes a big deal out of her probably paying for more stuff by saying that automatically makes him a deadbeat loser that is in fact still just sexism. like can you people not just be normal about the concept of women having their own money in a relationship