Just Young & Fun

I am glad that the male in this relationship/marriage and female can see that exploring stuff with same sex does not make your gay or bi. let me tell you, as a gay, there are MANY straight guys who suck dick or like to get fucked in the ass and receive from men/fuck men. they have zero attraction or feeling for men whatsoever. it’s pure experimenting and fun and pleasure.

amongst us gays, we literally say to these straight guys/couples that what they are doing isn’t gay. there are literally just ‘sucking cock’ or ‘getting fucked’. nothin more to it. not intimate. Literally just doing a physical act and the descriptive of that is sucking cock or getting fucked. it’s been a while since you discussed stuff like that on this post and were umming and ahhing but i hope you have tried it by now. do not hold back because you think it’s gay or makes you bi. you cannot be any of them unless youre attracted to the same sex. you can suck cock and get fucked by one and not be attracted to men, Its VERY common and normal intrigue and exploration.

to the female in this rel/ marriage. encourage it. make your man feel its fine to experiment and suck a dick and get fucked in the ass because its actually very pleasurable for the guy and something you cant let him experience yourself but can enable it by asking. a true good girlfriend or wife will tell their boyfriend/husband that they want to see them suck a dick, and get fucked in the ass and that theyd find it hot to watch. i have many straight gal friends with straight partners who have done it and they said it was one of the hottest things ever seeing them suck a guy’s dick or get fucked seeing how much pleasure it gave them. it’s clear from your partners ‘no kissing/intimacy with the guy’ rule that he has zero interest and attraction to men and that’s exactly what we see with straight guys who just like to experiment and after they experiment they’re still as straight as ever.

so encourage it, tell your guy that if you have a threesome you want it to be with a guy who also wants to do stuff with your boyfriend/husband as well, so that way everyone gets to play with everyone. also be the cool chick that uses toys on their man, make the move and tell him you wanna fuck him with a dildo or use a dildo on him whilst you go down on him or whilst he fucks you. a dildo, ideally vibrating, will give him some of the best sensations and orgasms he can ever have and youll notice if you just look at his cock when it’s in by how much precum comes out. sounds like your guy already has experience with dildos with previous partners so its not even something you have to train for, so just get it in him! and remember, most straight men will never ask for you to use a dildo on them because they think it’s gay or weird. woman need to realize this and tell their man they want to use it on them. dont offer it in a way that asks them if they want to or not as theyll say no most the time, just tell them you wanna use a dildo on them whilst you blow them or they fuck you because you think it’s fun/hot or because you wanna try something new . happy to send some links to articles online for woman getting into this and how to use toys on men. start with finger play if new to this stuff. woman: there is no reason you shouldn’t be using a finger as standard every time you suck his cock or have sex! it should be part of the routine just like kissing is! finger in the ass makes everything millions times better!

sorry had to say something as I’m tired of the stereotypes and seeing straight men on here who clearly are down to try new stuff and explore but are afraid of appearing gay/bi when everything about them screams straight as fuck. its ok to explore men! sucking a dick is just sucking a dick, nothing else. getting fucked is just that. Life is short, try new things. if you have a partner who thinks it’s weird or gay to try stuff like that or thinks using toys for fun on you is weird, leave them. real woman want their man to have the best pleasure and experiences ever and none of that is possible if they dont encourage you doing the above.

let me know if you have already experimented and sucked some dick and got fucked in the ass and also watched her suck some cock and a guy cum in her mouth and pussy! in the past your girl/wife said she wanted to see you suck dick, I think get fucked and also watch you eat another man’s cum from her, so I hope that’s all happened and would love to know your perspective after being weary beforehand! i hope she was using more toys on you like you hinted at in your posts at the start of february or w.e!

Lmao sorry I have only responded to this now and not last Oct when it was sent.

We’re great thanks and having lots of fun! We were discussing stuff like this today and that’s why I am back on now and happened to check the questions haha!

She has used the dildo on me during a bj since we last discussed the stuff on here and everyone was asking her to.

Getting ‘fucked’ by a dildo isn’t really my thing as I don’t see how it would do much if someone isn’t sucking my dick or I’m not fucking someone lol. I’m sure it feels good but I’d have to jerk myself off as she did it and that seems boring. Strap ons just ain’t it for me. No issue with using a toy with her hands whilst she is giving me head or during sex. But it’s more of a special occasion thing and she is the one who suggested using it at the time. I don’t ask to use toys, will only use them if she wants to use them as I’m not fussed about using them if she’s not enjoying using them or not getting anything out of the pleasure it gives me. But yes I agree most guys aren’t going to ask to use toys and will only use them if the OH asks. I’d have no issue using them often but it’s extra work and again would require her opting to use them. And yes I agree it’s hot when a partner just takes control and decides “I wanna use a toy on you tonight”, even if I don’t feel like it that night, it’s still hot that she wanted to and I’ll probably say we can use one next time.

With some v v sad BC changes, can’t really do much in the way of eating cum out from her now cause of rubbers.

In regards to your other tips with choice of guys for threesomes. It’s down to her. I am not sure what her current opinion and choices are on what she wants everyone to do in a threesome. As you said previously she has wanted to see me experiment and all of my exes wanted me to do all the stuff you said as they, like many woman as you’ve mentioned, find it hot seeing their guy try stuff and do those things. However, a lot of time has changed since we discussed that stuff and sadly she doesn’t use tumblr anymore so we can’t share gifs like that and gauge her response as it’s much easier to question stuff like that and discover new things together on tumblr than it is in person over text but she cba with tumblr which is really unfortunate for knowing such info. If she was into it, I know it’s much easier to find a guy for threesomes if everyone is down to do stuff together. It didn’t take me long to find a handful of guys when previously trying one evening and 95% of them were straight or bi guys but all wanted to do stuff with everyone, so they wanted to do stuff with her and me. Whereas it was more difficult finding decent guys who just wanted to do stuff with just her.

So it depends on what she wants from a guy and what she wants us all to do. If she wants it to be all about her and us guys focused entirely on her, which is fine, then we would just find a guy who has no interest in experimenting. If she is as she was before and like my exes and wants me to see me do certain things to maximise my experience and pleasure as well, then I already know plenty of guys who would be down to do it next weekend if I wanted and have already said they’d be down to do stuff if it involved everyone doing stuff together. But I am not fussed, I’m down for trying everything once and exploring things that can bring the most pleasure but if it’s not going to do anything for her then it won’t for me either. I am also happy to watch her suck a new dick and get railed and cummed in, and get DP’d and spitroasted as well. Had many a fantasy of us going to the club on a night we had free and her getting tipsy in her dress and daring her to take off her underwear and go flirt with a guy, ask him if he’s down for a threesome, and having him come sit down together with her in between and then her telling him to touch her under the table before we head off back to the hotel for some fun. But on the way back I’d have us cut down an alley and make her suck him off for a few seconds as a teaser of what’s to come. 🤪 if only she appreciated fantasy stories I could come up with so many to make her horny and wet lmao. Only saying it as I’ve seen some of you offer to send in some fantasy story examples using us two and what you’ve gathered from posts.