my only goal is just to be

is wanting to be a wife and mother a requirement for being a woman?

why might OP be annoyed with replies assuming that this post is about being aroace or transmasc if a woman doesn’t want to be a wife or mother?

are there reasons unrelated to sexuality and romantic interest that might make a woman not want to be a wife or mother?

are there reasons unrelated to gender identity and expression that might make a woman not want to be a wife and mother?

core concept: what is gender essentialism?

is it gender essentialism to imply that all women inherently want to be wives and mothers? could this be what OP is critiquing?

look at the notes OP responds to. is it gender essentialism to imply that being a wife and mother is so affixed to womanhood that to not want to be those things means you’re incapable of sexual/romantic feelings, or not a woman?

After everything they'd gone through together, all their history, their love spanning 6000 years, they literally vanished into dust.

Their "human versions" are not them. They met each other in their 50s? 60s? and will get like 30 or so years together.

No sticking together for centuries despite being from opposite factions in an eternal conflict, no developing their rivalry, friendship, and eventually love throughout the ages, no having each other's back despite the dangers of doing so, no bickering, no rescuing each other, no "you go too fast for me, Crowley", no 'our' Bentley, no "angel" as a pet name, NO THEM. At all.

low oil/low meat/focus on vegetables and whole grains/no nuts and seeds??

However, when socially awkward Shane was confronted with an extrovert extending friendship (Hayden inviting him to dinner) he panicked and thought of the first excuse he could think of without seeming rude: that he followed a macrobiotic diet. Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how you look at it), Hayden did not let this deter him and Jackie had like one hour to learn what a macrobiotic diet was and make something suitable.

she didn't have time to look up details the first time because she just had to find a recipe that was kind of in line with what she was already planning on making (because she doesn't want him to feel excluded!) and order groceries to be delivered, but she starts doing more research because she enjoys cooking and also wants to be a good hostess and then just 🤨 wait a second 🤨 as she thinks about what she's SEEN SHANE EATING WITH HER OWN EYES BEFORE at mixers/events and also the way he'll happily take a ginger ale no problem

and she also sees the way he picks at the food when he comes over (he'll eat most of it, but he clearly isn't used to or enjoying it, and not even in the "i just gotta get calories in even though i'm sick of eating" way hayden ends up doing during the season like all pro athletes), so she eventually decides that shane must have been making a joke that hayden didn't pick up on, and if he wants to be funny, she can be HILARIOUS.

based on this tweet i saw