I'm starting to think that most men aren't actually sure of their own strength. They bristle so much at even the thought of women defending themselves or fighting back, feel the need to comment on women's self defense posts or videos--you know the ones, those "is your dog bullet proof?" comments--and it's like,
What truly superior creature, is so upset by the words of something supposedly so much weaker than itself? Why do they have to prove themselves to us so much, if they're truly so confident in their superiority and strength?
Anger is fear. Period. Something only angers you if it upsets you, and something can only upset you if it affects you. Any time a man tries to talk tough, he instantly looks weaker, proving that he felt threatened enough to pipe up.
The need to appear strong is proof of weakness.
Because why would you need to insult, degrade, or threaten something if it were truly weaker than you? If you saw a man screaming at ants on a sidewalk about how much stronger he was than them, would you think that man strong, or hysterical and out of his mind?
--and it's the same thing in the degrading, sexually charged insults men hysterically spit at women any time they're upset. If we're so weak, so inferior, if we're truly just whores/sluts/holes/bitches/whatever, then why the hell do they even care? Why are they even bothered?
I know I'm physically and mentally more developed than, for example, a fish. or a cat. or whatever. I have never felt the need to prove this. It is fact. I have never once questioned whether I am more sapient or strong than one of these small animals.
So, imagine how hysterical, how emotional I would have to be, to begin ranting at say, a fish, about how superior I am to it. Imagine seeing a human leaning over the water and cussing out a fish about how superior humans are, and how much stronger and better than we are than fish.
That person would look insane, deeply insecure, and not at all like the calm, logical, superior being they claim to be.
That is, precisely, how ridiculous men look claiming to be superior to women while simultaneously being so incensed by us. The tougher you talk, the stronger you try to act, the more ridiculous and threatened you look.