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him big

Chocolate loaf

pumpkin bread

good morning everybody today we make an extra attempt to become comfortable with vulnerability and being honest and open with your feelings because being emotionally intimate with your friends is so important

time is fake! productivity isn’t real! do what you want! self care is important! nothing is a waste of time! choose your own path! don’t live up to other people’s standards! there’s no time limit on life! It’s never too late! holding yourself back is stupid! go be embarrassing! go be happy! go be shameless! go out and live!

everything in my life will work out and i will have my dreams and so will you!!!!!!!!! and that’s tea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this is literally so funny and is also me whenever i feel i’ve been Wronged

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

I love being just like every other girl in the world and catching glimpses of myself in other girls, in ancient lit, anywhere a girl has been so have I