Here there be monsters

A - Alone time: typically when I'm alone I touch myself with my own fingers. I have one toy, but I don’t like to use it when I’m trying to get myself off. I like the feeling of my skin against my skin. I don’t usually use porn? It feels too impersonal...watching someone else get off? I dunno...I just focus on how I make myself feel...

B - Bondage: I don’t like bondage, but I don’t mind being restrained. So if someone tells me that I’m not allowed to touch, I can get behind that.

C - Crying: I don’t think crying is a turn on? Not sexually...I’ve never cried...well I mean I have but not when I’m in pleasure.

D - Dominance: It all depends who I’m with. Some people exert a strong dominant energy and it’s hard for me to compete with that, and I instantly become submissive, but there are others (females, mostly) that I find myself dominating instead. I’ve had my fair share of female lovers, so I’ve been dominant before...but it’s not a constant state of being for me. I have this one guy right now that is pretty dominating but it’s, again, not a constant state of being. I enjoy having him tell e what to do...I enjoy letting him take control of me and my climaxes. It creates more pleasure for me when someone else is in control, at least for a while. 

E - Extra info: I...don’t think I have an fetishes? I like wearing lingerie, and being fucked while I’m wearing lingerie, but that’s just because I like how it makes me feel.

F - Food play: no.

G - Group sex: I could try. I wouldn’t mind it, but I’d want to be in the middle. This is the only time that I’d want all the attention.

H - Humiliation: no. I hate it. 

I - Impact play: I don’t like being hit, poked, slapped...I don’t like any of it, and it can be triggering.

J - Jelly: oh~ I don’t usually use lube, but my friend gave me a tube of strawberry lube once because I told her I wanted to try pegging once.

K - Kissing: Kiss me every where. Kiss my fingers, my wrists, my pulse points. Kiss my ankles and the insides of my thighs. Kiss my stomach and up my chest. Leave kisses over my breasts, and along the length of my neck. Kiss my lips, and my cheeks, and my nose and my forehead. Leave MARKS ON ME EVERYWHERE CLAIM MY BODY. I love marks.

L - Lighting: lights can be on or off. I like natural lighting the most, so sunlight.

M - Masochism: ...you can choke me, but then kiss me right after.

N - Not yet: yes. Deny me my orgasm. Tell me I’m not allowed to touch myself, or touch you. But that’s it. You can only control my climax, not what I eat, not where I sleep, not who I am outside of sex. Speak down to me, even once, and we will no longer speak at all.

O - Outdoor sex: Yes. I love natural lighting. 

P - Photography: I do send the occasional nude, but that’s it. I don’t like being recorded. 

Q - Quiet please: I like things soft spoken...but I’m not afraid to get loud.

R - Routine: ...I don’t have a routine for sex. 

S - Sleepy sex: I would love to wake my partner up with oral, as long as they’re ok with it. I am always 100% fine with waking up to sex, any kind. I love lazy morning sex, or a quickie before we fall asleep. I’m fine with it as long as I’m not like...overworked.

T - Top or bottom: yes.

U - Underwear: I usually wear something lacy, because I like the way it feels, and I own a ton of lingerie.

V - Voyeurism: I love to watch and be watched.

W - Water: I have had sex in the bath before? It’s wet…?

X - X-dressing: Yes. I love beautiful things in beautiful things. What can I say?

Y - Yes, Master: no...I don’t call anyone master, but I might playfully call someone daddy. I like it when ladies call me sir, though...