what my rotting bones will sing

crucially i love that shane hollander's slut socks are always all the way up over his calf. he doesn't scrunch them down because he doesn't like the way they feel like that. they made them that way if i wanted to only have socks up to my ankles i would have bought ankle socks. no it's dumb that other people wear them that way i wear them right!

unethical nonmonogamy where god is the third

This is the plot of Harrow the Ninth

If this shit happened in 2005 it meant your computer had a virus

i cannot hate myself into a version of me i will love.

i cannot punish myself in any way that will unmake the past.

Mary Magdalene washing Christ's feet

I love how every time I log on, this site attains new levels of heresy. I can't wait to see what is next.

always so funny to me how Kai is considered a stylish unisex/gender-neutral name in English. like that's a northern German man in his mid 60s to me.

contrary to popular belief not everyone has an innate sense of internal gender or care to have one or seek a name for it, some people go their whole lives without questioning their occupation in one of two gender roles, but for some people, if pressed, they don’t feel that internal sense of ‘i am a woman’ or ‘i am a man’, and in that case i feel the switch over to transgender vs cisgender relies on active identification of a gender other than the one they were assigned. if someone’s like ‘idk dude I just work here’ then that’s valid

A portion of people in the notes are like ‘but that makes you trans. That’s called being agender’ and another portion of people are going ‘this is how the majority of cis ppl feel and it’s NOT agender’ and personally I feel like both of them are missing the point here. Yes a lot of people identify as agender because of this feeling. Yes a lot of people with this same feeling still identify as cis. These are not mutually exclusive experiences and it doesn’t mean the agender people are secretly cis or the cis people are secretly agender. It just means they have very similar experiences of gender that they choose to conceptualize and label differently, and neither of them are mistaken or wrong to do so.

Love that German has an augmentation for nothing. It's even less than nichts. It's gar nichts.

It's not RPF if I'm right