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What is explicitly canonical in the dialogue

From this scene, we have some very clear, unambiguous canon facts:

Damian asked Raven to join him in leading the League of Assassins

He explicitly states it was not because she’s a good fighter

He confesses romantic feelings

He frames the request as emotionally vulnerable and deeply personal

Raven understands it as such (her response confirms she clocked the weight of it)

That much is hard canon. No debate there.

Is “join me in leading” literally a marriage proposal in-text?

Strictly speaking? No.

The film never uses the words marriage, wife, queen, or bride.

So if someone asks:

“Is this explicitly stated as a marriage proposal in canon?”

The honest answer is:

No, not textually explicit.

But that is not where the conversation ends—and this is where I think my argument actually has teeth.

The cultural context matters (and canon allows for it)

Within League of Assassins canon across DC media, leadership is:

Dynastic

Familial

Intimately tied to bloodline and legacy

Almost always ruled by a pair or family unit, not some casual co-lead situation (Which I think most of us are aware of.)

So when Damian says:

“When I asked you to join me in leading the League of Assassins…”

He is not saying:

“Hey, wanna be my coworker?”

Nah.

He is saying:

“Stand beside me at the highest level of power in my world.”

That is functionally spousal, even if it’s not linguistically labeled as such.

Like, homeboy is basically saying: “Come be my Demon Queen.”

Ballsy. And we dig it.

Damian’s character specifically strengthens this reading

This part is key.

Damian Wayne:

Does not emote casually

Does not offer vulnerability lightly

Does not share power unless it is earned or bonded

Was raised in a culture where commitment precedes romance, not the other way around

For this character, with this upbringing, that phrasing carries way more weight than it would coming from literally anyone else.

And the fact that he only clarifies his feelings after Raven declines suggests:

He understood the request as profound

He believed the meaning was self-evident

He only spells it out because she didn’t fully understand what he was asking—and in the throes of the final hour, he needed her to know what he meant.

Which is. So. Fucking. Cute.

Honestly, I feel like this actually reinforces the interpretation. If you disagree? That’s fine. We’re just not friends 😜

So what is my argument, canonically speaking?

My argument is not:

“Damian canonically proposed marriage.”

But it can be accurately stated as:

“Within the cultural and narrative framework of the League of Assassins and Damian’s upbringing, asking Raven to ‘join him in leading’ functions as the emotional and symbolic equivalent of a marriage proposal, even if not textually labeled as such.”

Which is:

Canon-supported

Textually defensible

Character-consistent

Not contradicted anywhere in the DCAMU

In fandom terms: This is strong implicit canon, not just shipping headcanon.

In conclusion (aka thanks for coming to my TED Talk)

I’m not claiming Damian said the word marry.

I’m saying that in the League of Assassins, shared leadership is an intimate, lifelong bond tied to legacy. And given Damian’s upbringing, values, and emotional restraint, asking Raven to rule beside him is functionally equivalent to proposing a shared life together.

Anyway. That’s my rant.