cadence

Thoughts are an instant manifestation of your beliefs. Your feelings are an instant manifestation of your beliefs and self concept.  Thoughts are from Beliefs. Feelings are from Beliefs. You believe life is dark, grim and that there is no purpose in this world = Negative thoughts/ideas = Negative feelings.

You are trying to bring in thoughts that aren’t in alignment with your self concept, that’s why it isnt working out. That’s why you have two great days, then crash for the rest of the week – That’s why your “self concept'” is on Mount Everest level one day, and rock bottom the next. Your self concept is who you are, so tell me, why is your self image fluctuating so drastically?

No matter how many times you affirm ‘loamaster27’s bad b*tch affs’ from tumblr, your true self concept will always be sh*t, because that’s not what you intrinsically believe you are; and you know that. Deep down, you don’t really believe you’re a bad b*tch, and you don’t really believe you’re beautiful either. If you did, you wouldn’t have let that person walk all over you yesterday, you wouldn’t ignore your boundaries, and you wouldn’t care what Dick, Tom, and Harry say about you.

Work on yourself, fix your self concept, grow some f*cking backbone and stop letting the same thoughts/conditioning f*ck you over again + again. TAKE RESPONSIBLITY. You truly do it to yourself. You know beliefs affect reality so why do you keep letting [yes, letting] negative self talk f*ck you over? Sure, maybe it isn’t your fault you were called ugly throughout middle school, but now it’s your responsibility now to deconstruct that conditioning. It’s easy to put the blame on others, but learn to take responsibility if you’re going to let it affect YOUR life.

“You need to learn to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life … work on the mind.”

— Elizabeth Gilbert.