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number one rule! never believe ur thoughts after 10 pm . unless its about The Character then believe all of your thoughts wholeheartedly

what if we were all nice

what if we approached each other in good faith and with good intentions as the default

sometimes you get angry and start arguing with people as your first instinct because you've already assumed incompetence or malice, when what you should be doing is approaching them first with curiosity and understanding. everyone in the world has an inner life and a million motivations. the hurt that causes you to distrust others prior to having justification is a hurt that nearly everyone in the world has felt

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

what if our ocs were friends. is that okay . u can kill me if not

"mid" wife?.....ha, ha......no such thing.

[grabs your shirt] listen. listen to me. the practical is holy. the everyday is sacred. the simple act of surviving is divine. do you get it? sanctity begins at home, in the hands that build and the lives we live and the deaths we die and the worms that eat our bodies. if making something by hand is not worthy of veneration then nothing is.

he's a manic pixie dream girl except he's a depressed alcoholic middle aged man