writer in bloom

Choose yourself over and over and over again

“you call me fragile like it’s a bad thing. like it doesn’t take any strength to pull my pieces from your hands and mold myself into the person i was before you ever laid a finger on me.”

i always set high expectations for myself and i think i pass it onto others as well. maybe some form of expectation is normal, but feeling let down by a situation that i created in my mind is a different form of depression. i knew it would only hurt me, but i let the thoughts become what i want my reality to be and expect others to know. there isn’t fairness in this. i create these painful situations. and i’m the only one who gets hurt.

“Can you imagine a love so gentle and honest, that it fundamentally changes a person’s nature for the better? Can you imagine a love so good and pure, that it changes someones life?”

““Don’t ever discount the wonder of your tears. They can be healing waters and a stream of joy. Sometimes they are the best words the heart can speak.””

“The woman you are becoming will cost you people, relationships, spaces, and material things. Choose her over everything.”