Who Knows Anymore

Does it frustrate me when I'm dealing with a situation and he comes in, huffing and puffing because it's not immediately dealt with, and takes over without even giving me a glance? Yes

Do I sometimes go too far in getting him to understand I had it handled? Yes. Especially because I'm frustrated. I need to work on it.

However, that is no excuse for him to turn around and say "If you say one more thing you can find somewhere else to live"? Absolutely not. Especially when the next time you see him he says he's not mad, but then blames me for the altercation, despite the fact he's the one who said the uncalled for thing. And, when explaining that, in a very calm and mature way, he says it's my fault.