glad faggot

sorry i will always be kinda sad about The Events, do you still think im hot????

temporary individualistic fixes will never solve the problem, but you live in a temporary individualistic world, so you kinda have to learn how to survive in our current material reality or you will suffer for no reason. like yes, we are organising for a better future! i believe in that immensely! everything always gets better, we have slowly made immense progress, and it builds in itself! but also you are alive right now, your friends and loved ones are alive right now, your community is alive right now. right now we all have to live within the systems that currently exist, so how are we going to survive that effectively?

many of the jokes on the internet that become awful are originally fine but become so abstracted from their origins as they hit the mainstream that they become genuinely problematic. the original "girl dinner" post was about how when you're eating by yourself or just with a few girlfriends you don't have to pull out all the stops, you can grab random shit from the pantry and/or fridge and call it a meal. girl dinner can be what was left in a that pickle jar, half a bagel with an egg and whatever cheese you have that needs to get eaten, something vaguely veg adjacent, and etc... and then it became a combo of posts where people posted insanely elaborate plates or like eating disorder shit and it got ruined.