Will 👽

You got a traumatized f/o?

Great, imagine them having a nightmare about it so horrible they wake up on the brink of tears next to you, shaking, eyes wide, breathing heavy, but as soon as they feel you next to them, they soothe like nothing was ever wrong.

As soon as they hear your voice, as soon as they feel your hands, as soon as they know you're there, they know they're safe.

big shoutout to …

- yumes who have a lot of f/os.

- yumes who are monogamous with their f/o.

- yumes who have an irl partner and their f/o(s).

- yumes who have lots and lots of love to give, and use their f/o as an outlet for that.

- yumes who don’t experience romantic attraction, and find comfort in their relationship with their f/o.

- yumes who see their relationship with their f/o as a little hobby, something silly or fun.

- yumes who take their relationship with their f/o very seriously & devote themselves.

whether ur someone who does it for the fun and joy of it all or someone whose beloved is with them on the daily & they know them like the back of their hand. or in someone inbetween or both or neitherrrr.....

you can do whatever you want, you are always free to have fun and be loved how you want, how you see, how you feel & imagine. you don't need to police canon, or other people, you dont need permission and you don't have to explain. its all yours and its all valid so don't let being perceived by others stop you never ever never!!! there is only what feels right to You! nothing else matters.! really!

this goes all ways, everyone is allowed to disagree forever but no one will ever be less or more valid based on interpretation of their relationship or said character!!!!! be kind to one another & remember even if u can never get along with someone, see what they say, or see eye to eye they are just a person in this world who wants love & community & memories & joy. & remember that u are also this person, please be kinder to yourself. even if u dont fit into certain boxes of what people think your f/o wants or needs. even if nobody sees something but you do, you see it. ur so valid, and YOUR beloved loves YOU.

Fun activities to do with your F/O or fictional oshi

(cheap version: using little to no money!)

this is kinda long so beware. Feel free to suggest other things in reblogs or my inbox for a second part (if you want)

Ways to connect with your f/o (a list for slow living and mindful moments)

♡ Go for a walk and imagine you're holding their hand

♡ Try to make your f/o's favorite foods

♡ If you'd prefer to be pampered, when you make food, put it down with a little love note from your f/o saying how happy they were to make it for you, and that they hope you enjoy it (even if it's just a sandwich or something small!)

♡ Bake bread with your f/o

♡ Go on a picnic with your f/o

♡ Use pictures of them on your phone or computer to body double when you do chores or study

♡ Use pictures of them on your phone or computer to play video games or watch movies and shows with them

♡ Along that same vein, watch something that they expressed interest in—or that you think they'd really like—and imagine the comments they'd make about their favorite media

♡ Print out a picture or use photos on your phone or computer to have a romantic candlelit dinner with them (even if it's just ramen!)

♡ Buy flowers or a plant from or for your f/o and take care of it

♡ Take up a hobby that they enjoy, even if you're not very good at it—additionally, imagine that your f/o is helping teach you Addition by @uss-moonveil

♡ Curate a playlist using music they would enjoy

♡ Or you can curate a playlist using music with meaningful lyrics about you and your f/o's relationship

♡ Write loving post-it notes or letters from your f/o and leave them around the house for yourself

♡ If you need reminders, write one for yourself in your f/o's voice (for appointments, medicine, to eat, or any aspect where you need a little help—they're so happy to help you!)

♡ Run yourself a bath with bath bombs or bubbles and imagine your f/o made it for you to relax

♡ If you prefer showers: light some candles, use your favorite music, and imagine your f/o set everything up for you

♡ Spend time in nature with your f/o enjoying the sun or the trees or the beach or whatever little safe spots of nature you can find around you

♡ Imagine their voice guiding you through meditative or mindful deep breathing

♡ If your f/o is from a different culture than you, learn about their culture—make food from their culture, immerse yourself in music or media from their culture, and/or learn their language (even if it's just terms of endearment or phrases of their love for you)

♡ On the flipside, have them learn from your culture, too, and be enthralled and surprised by what they learn

♡ Buy or thrift clothes that look like your f/o's so you can wear them—additionally, buy them in your f/o's sizes so you can pretend you stole them Addition by @razanhyperfangz

♡ If you have to purchase clothes for yourself, imagine your f/o hyping up every outfit you try on

♡ Buy or thrift trinkets they would own and decorate your home with them

♡ Buy perfumes or colognes that your f/o wears and spray them on your clothes or bed (or scents that remind you of them)

♡ Use shampoos, conditioners, and/or body washes that they'd use so you can have a shared shower space with them

♡ Paint your nails your f/o's favorite color or colors that remind you of them

♡ Read a book you think they would enjoy, and—if you own the book—annotate the margins with little notes for them

♡ Journal your thoughts about them—gush about them, write about their flaws and merits, outline all of your favorite aspects of their physical features or personality, all of the reasons you're grateful to have them in your life, and include lots of little hearts and declarations of love

♡ Alternatively, get a journal that they would have and do the same thing, but in their voice about you

♡ You can also use journals to vent to your f/o so they can read it and help comfort you

♡ When you purchase something online, buy it as a gift and have it sent from your f/o with a love note attached Addition by @nathandrakeisabottom

♡ If you're able, buy a Mystery Box/Bundle and address it to you from your f/o so you can be surprised at all of the cute trinkets and things they bought for you Addition by @kaydwessie

Remember: your f/o wants you to eat, drink water, remember your meds/vitamins, take care of your hygiene, and exercise! Not for them, but because it will make you feel better—they love seeing you happy!