The longer I am in the KPop world, the more I avoid fandoms. I can enjoy new and old music from all my favourite groups in peace instead of constantly being called too old for KPop, people saying that my bias groups are irrelevant or telling me Iâm a perverted noona fan who should leave kids like NCT or Stray Kids alone because they would never date me, as if I even wanted that in the first place.












