A fuckboy is a man who sleeps around and doesn't want commitment. Basically a ho. His biggest sin is maybe disappointing people, wasting their time, or hurting their feelings. All very benign and minor compared to irreversible sexual violence that robs someone of their bodily autonomy and sexual agency. This "joke" is so extreme and hateful that I honestly don't know how anyone can find it funny.

I don't consider myself an "anime person," but I'm definitely a lover of all things extraordinary, and this anime makes my list! The way "Frieren" illustrates the passage of time, the importance of valuing the present moment and your friends while you still can, made me cry so many times.

Recently went down a Eurovision Song Contest (ESC) rabbit hole (I have never seen it before!!) and, well, now I basically am in love with Alexander Rybak and Damiano David 🙈

It's crazy to me that even people who realize that religion is nonsense will have these orphaned beliefs that came from religion, like belief in a soul, which is just some nonsense created to explain the other nonsense. You can't burn eternally in hell if there's no you to do that after you die, so you have to invent this thing called a soul so that you can have divine punishment after you're no longer corporeal.

In which I act as a modern social anthropologist of my own life, turning a 7.5-hour expatriate house party in a bougie Mexico City neighborhood into a dense study of queer social dynamics, cultural barriers, and human interaction. In the most autistic way possible, of course. (Based on true events but fully anonymized)

Loved this and love her

I wrote an article about how often our attempt to understand and diagnose what is going on in our emotionally immature and even abusive partner can be the very mechanism that keeps us trapped in a relationship with them

I have been trying to learn Spanish mainly via listening to podcasts on youtube, and I'm very grateful that by doing so I have discovered Bárbara Mori. It's safe to say I am in love with her lol. Not only the best voice ever, but I love her authenticity too.

The "Godzilla" El Niño event brewing in the Pacific right now is looking to be one of the strongest ever recorded. It is being compared to the one from 1877 which produced global famines, what some historians call the "Late Victorian Holocausts."