FemStrong

Just because he likes you DOES NOT mean you have to date him. It doesn’t mean shit if you’re not interested. Because here’s the thing. You don’t OWE him anything for liking you. Your say matters. Your opinion counts. I’d even argue that your say matters more......... Check out the link in my profile to read on. . . . . . . #standupforyourself #beincharge #strongwoman #codependencyrecovery #datingadvice #dating #relationships #lifeafterdivorce #divorce #startingover #codependent #femstrong #femstrongaf #feminist #newblogpost #newpost

Newsflash!! You can make your own rules. You can define YOUR OWN relationship. Just because other people do not feel the same way DOES NOT MAKE IT WRONG!! So ask yourself: what do I REALLY want? . . . . . . 📷 @madison_yen #relationships #relationshipgoals #standupforyourself #beincharge #strongwoman #codependencyrecovery #codependent #codependency #codependentnomore #femstrong #femstrongaf #thursdaythoughts #thursdaymotivation #relationshipnirvana #nirvana #goals #travelphotography #makeyourownrules #bedifferent #beyou #newblogpost #newblog

I will not bend for you. I like me just the way I am, and if that doesn’t jive for you, then #byefelicia New blog post up, and I’m taking about codependency, dating, and of course - Singledom. . . . . . #codependent #codependentnomore #codependency #codependencyrecovery #femstrong #femstrongaf #growthmindset #worthit #standtall #staystrong #beyou #likeyourself #doyou #dating #lifeafterdivorce #divorce #personaldevelopment #relationships #cantchangeme

For God’s sake, get out of the back seat. It’s time to take the wheel. Think of all the places you can go once you figure out how. New blog post up!! Link in the profile! 📷 @madison_yen . . . . #takethewheel #driversseat #takecontrol #codependencenomore #codependentnomore #codependent #codependency #codependencyrecovery #femstrong #femstrongaf #mondayinspiration #mondays #feminist #letsdothis #strongwoman #beincharge #standupforyourself

Asking these questions makes you uncomfortable. You won’t always like the answers. But how are you supposed to move forward if you’re too scared to see the situation for what it is? New blog post up! Link in the profile and below! . . . . #askthequestion #askthehardquestions #femstrong #femstrongaf #friday #fridayinspiration #fridaymotivation #friyay #growth #growthmindset #codependency #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #pathtoindependence #independent #independentwoman #relationships #relationshipgoals #questions #answers #askquestions #newblogpost #honestanswers #hardquestions #blogger #blogging https://femstrong.com/2018/06/14/codependency-part-two/

Trying to remember this today. It’s OK to look, act, think, be different. Be different in how you make money, how you travel, and how you spend your time. Be different in as many things as you can because that’s what makes you interesting. That’s what makes life interesting. And who the fuck doesn’t want to be interesting?? . . . . . 📷 @madison_yen #thursdaymotivation #thursday #bedifferent #beyourself #beyou #beyourownboss #femstrong #femstrongaf #acceptyourflaws #wereallhuman #unique #beautifullydifferent #dontbeboring

Silly rabbit. Trix are for kids. You should know better that with each new game comes new rules. Check out my latest blog post where I talk about codependency..... . . . . Link in profile. #femstrong #femstrongaf #lifeafterdivorce #codependency #codependencyrecovery #itsajourney #slowprogress #recognitioniskey #newrules #newblogpost #blogger #feminist #datingasafeminist #independence

Look, my way of getting there doesn’t have to be YOUR way of getting there. At the end of the day, we are all just trying to make ourselves happy. Plus, taking a different road makes for more interesting stories anyways... . . . . . 📷 @madison_yen #femstrong #femstrongaf #createyourlife #makeyourownpath #findyourpath #beyourself #goals #bedifferent #daretobedifferent #strongwoman #tuesdays #tuesdayinspiration

I kinda hate being on a journey. It takes grace to forgive yourself when you fuck up, learn from your mistakes, and recognize the same situations in the future in order to change how you handle it. That whole process is called growth. And it’s a bitch. But how else are you going to get better? New post up on the blog. Link in the profile. . . . #codependency #codependent #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #femstrong #femstrongaf #strongwoman #independentwoman #itsajourney #journey #journeytofreedom #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #onestepatatime #newblogpost #sundayfeels

A constant reminder. Don’t lose sight of your goals. Don’t let men get in the way of your dreams. If they don’t help you be the best you, should they be there at all? . . . . 📷 @madison_yen #focus #fuckingfocus #eyesontheprize #bethebestyou #youdontneedhim #lifeafterdivorce #codependency #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #itsajourney #newblogpost #stayfocused #planforthefuture #femstrong #femstrongaf #strongwoman #priorities

You’re not “stuck” with an outcome. You can change anything you have the persistence and determination to change. And recognizing that you have certain tendencies or issues is the first step to creating a path to where you WANT to go, not where you happen to end up. . . . . . . #friday #fridaymood #fridayinspiration #friyay #femstrong #femstrongaf #recognition #recognize #createyourownpath #codependency #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery

After a long month of not posting, here's my latest. It was a rough one to write, I'm not going to lie. And now, I've found myself with new questions and no answers. But I guess that's part of the process. No one said it would be easy. :/ One thing for certain though, I need to demand more. Demand more of myself and from others. I’ll be watching this situation closely moving forward and I’ll keep you posted. Any other codependents in the house?? 🙋🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️ Link in profile to read more. And 📷 by @madison_yen . . . . #codependence #newblogpost #lifeafterdivorce #dating #datingsucks #femstrong #femstrongaf #lifesajourney #itsaprocess #divorce#relationships #cleaningupthemessheleftbehind https://femstrong.com/2018/05/30/codependence-part-one/

STEP THE FUCK UP. STOP making excuses and just do it. JUST do it! . . . . . . #dailyreminder #dailyreminders #motivationalquotes #tuesday #tuesdaymotivation #onatuesday #stepup #justdoit #noexcuses #femstrong #femstrongaf #strong #stronger #letsgo #dontholdyourselfback

Or are you seeing only what you want to see? What are we missing out on because we are too focused on something else? . . . . . 📷: @madison_yen in #hochiminhcity #vietnam #seebig #wholepicture #seethebigpicture #dontmissthepoint #femstrong #femstrongaf #newopportunities #opportunity #seetheforestforthetrees #focus #choosegratitude #thursday #thursdaymotivation #seemore

Demand MORE. You’re enough. BELIEVE that you’re enough. It doesn’t matter the shit he said in the past. It doesn’t matter all of the people who discount you, your opinions, or your value. They are reflecting your own beliefs. When you start believing yourself to be worth it, you’ll see how all that other shit stops happening. . . . . #femstrong #femstrongaf #believeit #believeinyourself #youreenough #enough #enoughsaid #worthit #askformore #demandmore #feminist #selfconfidence #selfesteem #divorce #divorcefucksthingsup #aftermathofdivorce

Heard this one today, and it was exactly what I needed. No one likes uncomfortable situations and straight up failures...but that’s how you get STRONG. . . . 📷: @madison_yen in #hochiminhcity #tuesdaymotivation #tuesdaymorning #tuesdays #onatuesday #femstrong #femstrongaf #failureleadstosuccess #failureleadstogrowth #growth #growthquotes #tonyrobbins #lifelessons #learnfromyourmistakes #strong #gettingstronger #stronger

Didn’t you know...? It’s the little things that make the difference. . . . . . #femstrong #femstrongaf #practicegratitude #gratitude #gratitudequotes #thursdays #thursdaymotivation #thelittlethings #life #livinglife #amazinglife #todayimgratefulfor