WCIF Sims 4 mods to make the game even more queer?
Just a note, this list doesn't cover CC––I'll make a separate post for that :)
LGBTQIA+ / Gender & Orientation Overhaul Mod
Gender Identity, Gender Affirmation & Transition, Split Orientations (In-Depth!), Self-Discovery (optional), Coming Out (optional), Dating App & Lot Trait(s), Auto-Assign (optional & customizable), Extra aspects, Queerplatonic relationships, Customizable Impact on Romance / WooHoo, & More!
LGBT Mod Revamp
This mod adds a variety of LGBTQIA+ traits, interactions, buffs, events, holiday traditions, lot traits, and more — creating a deeper and more inclusive gameplay experience for your Sims.
CAS Gender Breast Option & Pregnancy Both
A pretty simple mod that allows you to enable or disable breasts for Sims regardless of gender directly from the CAS Gender Options, and allows you to create a Sim that is capable of getting pregnant and getting other Sims pregnant at the same time.
Intersex
A small mod that adds a handful of intersex-related interactions and activities.
Learning with Pride
This mod brings real-world LGBTQ+ history, allyship, and community celebration into The Sims 4 in a fun and educational way. This mod is about more than just adding new activities. It is designed to simulate meaningful conversations, joyful Pride moments, and learning experiences that reflect the rich history and culture of the LGBTQ+ community.
LGBTQIA+ FIlter
This mods adds a new hidden trait, called LGBTQIA+, that is automatically added to Sims under certain conditions (you can also manually add it). The main interest of this trait is that it can be used for filtering in Clubs and Small Businesses.
Set Sexuality - Reward Traits
Adds gender and sexual/romantic orientation reward traits, including lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, nonbinary, demisexual, asexual, genderfluid, genderqueer, pansexual, aromantic, heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic, panromantic, demiromantic, greyromantic, straight, and straight ally.
Set Sexuality - Celebrate Pride
Adds a "Celebrate Pride" holiday tradition, and "Celebrate Pride" and "Talk About Pride" socials. Created to enable Pride to be a holiday with the Seasons EP.
Binders & Pocket Bras
Functional binders and pocket bras! Pocket bras will give a sim breasts, while binders will take them away. The effect is immediate!
Pronouns Displayed as VFX!
You will find two new interactions on sims: "Show Pronoun VFX" and "Hide Pronoun VFX" under a new pie menu category called "Pronoun VFX". Just click "Show Pronoun VFX" on any sim, and all sims in the area will have their pronouns instantly displayed above their heads.
big huge gender neutral string override pack
Every instance of a gendered string in the game has been made gender-neutral. This mod has about 600 string overrides.
check pronouns via notification mod
Click pretty much any sim in the world and run "check pronouns" and you get a notification with said sim's pronouns.
quick voice/pronoun changer (and optional randomizing)
This mod has interactions to change the pronouns and voice of any sim in the game by clicking on them in live mode and navigating to the "Voice and Pronoun Options" menu.
Lock Gender Preference Only
A little package that disables the changes in Gender Preference of every Sims when performing/being performing successful romantic interactions.
Facial Hair for All
All sims aged teen and up now have access to the facial hair category in CAS, regardless of gender. There are no longer separate body hair categories for chest & back hair, but rather one "torso hair" category.
gender-neutral underwear defaults
Adds new gender-neutral underwear defaults, shared across sims with male and female frames.
Proposal Jump-into-arms Equality
A small mod that makes it equally likely that a male sim will jump into the arms of a sim that proposed to them. Without this mod, only female sims have the ability to do this.
Sexy Pose Equality
This makes it so that sim girls can also show off their muscles and guys can bat their eyelashes when they decide to Pose Sexily, not just the other way around.
gender-neutral cas menu icons
i think it's really annoying how there's separate male and female icons for some cas menu items. like, male sims have a specific icon with short hair. female sims have a specific icon for a bikini. it sucks, so i've picked icons that everyone will use- the female hair icon, male swimsuit bottom icon, male underwear icon, and female fullbody icon will be used for all sims. i've also removed the extra underwear & swimwear bottom categories.
less gender restrictions for CAS presets
This mod unlocks various CAS presets for different frames and genders.
gender neutral doors
Gender specific doors are banished to debug, have their textures replaced with the gender neutral ones, and use normal door tuning, so you don't have to scroll past them when you build and don't have to manually replace them in builds.
gender neutral (and improved!) bathrooms
The left door is now used for bladder needs (including for toddlers!) and the right side is now used for showers. There are also optional mesh overrides to remove the gendered signs from the bathrooms.
No more gendered...
Bodies & Attraction
Instantly change gender options on any sim during gameplay by using the interactions under a new pie menu category called "Attraction and Body Options."
Fashion
With this mod, Sims won't use the the feminine/masculine "fashion choice" tags. All new generated outfits, both in NPCs and your own sims, will be affected.
Names
With this mod, randomized names are no longer influenced by gender.
Greetings
Did you notice that even some GREETINGS in the game are gender locked? Like, sims will only shake hands as a greeting if they're both male. This mod removes gender restrictions on the tunings of greetings.
Here are some that may or may not still work:
Pride Party Event
Host a Pride-themed party where Sims from all walks of life come together to dance, socialize, and celebrate diversity. Decorate your venues with rainbow decorations, play uplifting music, and create an inclusive atmosphere that encourages acceptance and love.
Gender Neutral Birth (Birth Text Override)
This mod override the text strings that appear when your sim gives birth to a baby! Comes in two packages: (1) Gender Neutral Birth - Lists the gender the baby was assigned at birth. (2) Theybie Birth - Completely removes the text listing gender assigned at birth, leaving the baby's gender a surprise.
Transgender Stories
This mod brings more life to the journey of a transgender sim and allows them to contemplate and question their gender, look to others for advice, and eventually come out. This also adds interactions for sims of all genders to participate in discussion regarding transgender topics.
Mannequins Without Genders Restrictions
With the default mannequins, Sims could only buy outfits that were displayed on mannequins that match their sex. This mod has removed that restriction.
Ask Gender Preference
Adds a friendly social, "Ask Gender Preference". This is a non-autonomous social interaction that tests for gender preference. You will get a notification reply only if they are 100% into men, women, 100% for both, or if they have 0% preference at all.
werewolf preset availability fix
EA had incorrectly added gender restriction tags along with frame restriction tags to most werewolf presets, so if your werewolf has a custom frame, you're screwed. This mod removes the gender restriction tags.