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here's a little guide!

1, look cute!

you don't have to have a maid outfit but it helps! you need something you can move in and can get a little messy in, but makes you feel like you were made to serve! make yourself look as adorable as you practically can, so that anyone who sees you will think that you are a cute maid!

2. tidy up!

find something that needs tidying up and tidy it up! throw away things that need throwing out. empy bins that need emptying. do your washing up and your laundry. vacuum your space and change your sheets. whatever you do, do something to make your space a little bit cleaner!

3. go slow!

you don't have to do it all at once. set aside a regular couple of hours to begin with then tidy up in your cute outfit. once you get into it you can set aside a maid day! as you figure out things that need doing, take your time to learn how to tackle them. eventually you'll get there, so don't rush and take your time. eventually, you might even realise you're tidying up between your maid times!

4. serve others!

a good maid should always be obedient. advanced maids might command other maids and others might run their households, but to begin with you should learn by following the instructions of others. whether it's your owner, employer, or a head maid, your role is to serve. follow your instructions!

5. be proud!

you will be such a good maid, tidying away in your cute maid outfit! your space will get tidier and you'll make progress getting things cleaner. you can do it! even small steps are still steps, so for every one you take, be proud of your progress! find someone to show off your work to, and make sure they praise you for a job well done!

we've got something about resistance play in mind today. a lot of tnemm has been playing with resistance as a kink concept, in lots of different ways. cnc, rape-kinks, princesses, hounds, and so on. the idea that it's hot when you don't get a choice in the matter, and someone physically or psychologically forces you to obey. it's an incredibly common kink across the board

like all play this sort of play requires negotiation. there's lots of factors to consider. it's used victim/aggressor here, but any dynamic titles could be used here, like princess/maid, hound/handler, submissive/dominance, and so on.

how much force does the victim want used

how much force can the victim withstand

how much resistance does the victim want to use

what kind of resistance does the victim want to use? fighting back? verbal abuse? emotional pleading?

does the victim want to lose and give in or want to stay defiant throughout that loss

how comfortable is the aggressor with using force

what force is the aggressor actually capable of using

how much resistance can the aggressor take before flinching

what tactics does the aggressor want to use? physical force? verbal degredation? blackmail?

does the aggressor want the victim to secretly enjoy it, or want them to hate it completely

what are the risks inherent in the force that's to be used and how can they be mitigated

what happens when/if the victim cries and begs for it to stop

how do you initiate a resistance scene

how does a resistance scene end

is there a fake safeword

there's a lot to it, which means if you're not careful, and any uncertainty in any of these questions will lead to moments of uncertainty and unexpected escalations that might leave everyone feeling hurt when it's all said and done. you might be able to get away with not talking it out if your expectations line up well, but if they don't someone can get actually hurt

as much as it feels like a betrayal of the non-consent part of the play, you have to be able to communicate up front the specific ways you want consent to be forced and consent to that ahead of playing with resistance play

“Shhhh, shhh, that’s it…come on baby, I know you can take it. Breathe now. You can take this dick, can’t you baby. Yeah, I know you can.” Gently whispering in my ear while you push your raw dick all the way into my pussy.