TRUCE 🤍

But I’m taking a second, this one’s for the men. Ladies, keep scrolling.

Gentlemen….make her feel safe.

I have so many men talking at barber shop, at work, online, “What can I do?” “How do I make things better?” “How do I get the spark back?”

Don’t ask what you can do. I’m telling you.

Hold space for her.

Listen to her. Actually listen.

Make her feel heard.

Make her feel seen.

Meet her where she is.

Not where you want her to be. Not where you think she should be. Where she actually is.

When a woman feels safe with you…truly safe, emotionally safe…something shifts. When she knows she can speak and you won’t dismiss her… when she knows you’re paying attention… when she knows you care enough to stay present instead of getting defensive…

It unlocks doors you wouldn’t believe.

Emotionally.

Mentally.

Sexually. Especially Sexually.

You don’t need tricks. You don’t need lines. You don’t need some secret playbook.

You need presence.

Glass bottle, possibly made in the Holy Roman Empire, uncovered in a Turkish garbage pit, 17th century.