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(PT/ Hello! /end PT)

This is a blog lead by @anti-willo-kinger dedicated to venting safely about endos.

This is NOT a place for harassment towards specific individuals (*), but simply a "scream inti the void" kind of thing, where you can just vent anonymously without worry.

No real DNI, besides NTGs and supporters!

(PT/ No real DNI, besides NTGs and supporters! /end PT)

You can vent about anything you want. I ask you to include trigger warnings on top of your ask. Asks without trigger warnings will be replied to, but I will take a screenshot and manually add the warnings myself, with the ask under the cut in a picture.

I ask you to PLEASE give a trigger warning for shipcourse. I don't personally care about your stance and you can vent however you'd like about it, but it is a triggering topic for me, and I ask you to please just tag it, so I can post it without reading.

If a topic is triggering to me, I will still post it, but I will not read what you have written. Trigger warnings will be included in the tags, too, for blocking purposes

You can specify if you want or don't want advice on a specific situation, and I will try to include some.

You can vent about anything, but this blog was made specifically for posting about endos (again, without making specific names (*)). for other vents, I suggest referring to @antiendoventing , @antiendosafepage , or @ranting-about-endos . They were mainly what inspired this blog, but I wanted something more dedicated to venting specifically against endos, so people can just block me/the tags to avoid me

(you can ask me to remove you from the post, if you don't want to be tagged!)

(*) Disclaimer

(PT/ (*) Disclaimer /end PT)

if you make a post showing proof that someone is doxxing, threatening, or heavily harassing you, or generally being dangerous to other people, I will make their name public for the sake or blocking and reporting purposes. I will ask for proof beforehand, and I do not encourage harassment towards anyone in any way, shape or form.

TAGS and how they work under the cut

(PT/ TAGS and how they work under the cut /end PT)

solivan deactivated his blog, so you'll have to use reblogs done from other accounts if you’re sharing the endo history stuff around😭

Thanks for telling me, anon. I have some things archived on @pro-willo-kinger (which is still me behind it) and usually I go for those, I don't know if any others have more but I believe @/anti-willo-miku has some too (I may be wrong)

finally some hate! my "shame" category was feeling pretty empty

Kinger isn't ableist, that's true, that's why he's against a literal hate group. good way to show you're not ableist by calling disabled people shitheads btw

Hello. I try and think pretty logically about things and I try, genuinely have tried to understand endos in the past. And I’m from a “nicer” anti-endo system in that while we very much so dislike them and don’t support them, a lot of us are like well it can’t be that bad, right? But honestly it is that bad, actually… I mean, I just remember when we first got into the system space and one of the hosts (main host at the time) didn’t know where to go, and we ended up joining pro-endo spaces.

First of all, they’re super racist. One of them said they allowed trans race IDs if “someone had a good reason for it”, like a Black system using trans white because of trauma relating to their race (as a Black susyem, this isn’t being trans white but rather internalized racism). We’d get tone policed a lot and stuff there. We stayed in endo spaces for 5-6 months. Only in the last couple of months did we get out of those spaces and it felt so much better being around people who had a head on their shoulders and wasn’t justifying racism. Honestly pro-endos are racist in general. There were like 2 places that were just explicitly antiblack :( and even ableist against like seizures and stuff it just sucked really badly overall

Meanwhile never had this problem in anti endo spaces. The only thing I can think of is when someone was fakeclaiming their friend because they formed an introject from a show they only watched a week ago, and that was pretty not true, but overall nothing really bad happened. It’s sad because it’s bad and misguiding :(

I get it, I have also seen something like that when I used to be pro-endo myself (I am happy to have changed </3)

I apologize for not seeing this ask before!

This is not about an endo, but a pro endo. I hope that’s okay.

We run an AWV blog on here and tag every single post with both endos and pro endos dni. Because it causes our system distress. Because we have been traumatized at the hands of endos, and very recently too. Now we got this long ass ask in our inbox. They started putting a lot of words in our mouth that we’ve never said, though I’m sure it was sent to the right blog because they referenced my source character who the blog is themed around.

Not only did they put words in my mouth, they reduced me no nothing but a fictional character. I have made several posts about fictional introjects (including me) being dehumanized and how harmful it is, and they basically said they did read those, and something like “Yes I know [char] is your source character, and you’re an introject and you said you’re not the character, but you’re not acting like the character did in the show therefore you missed the point of the show.”

And they claimed I was harassing people. I do not. I follow DNIs, if I want to respond to a post but the OP has anti endos dni I just screenshot the post and react like that. I don’t cuss people out, I don’t threaten anyone, I just debunk claims. But apparently pointing out inconsistency and ableism is harassment.

I would say they were harassing me by breaking our dni.

it's completely okay! My blog is to make sure people have a spce to vent about endos specifically but it's not at all prohibited to vent about pro endos, or even just the topic in general

Anyway, I am sorry this is happening to you and I'm sorry you have gone through recent trauma, I wish you the best recovery possible.

As for responding, I don't think it's bad if you respond to their accusations debunking them, or just, calling them out on the fact they lying about it. If they wanted a civil conversation, they should have started with it, and they're the one who broke boundaries. Self defense is not a rude thing to do, is just self preservation. Still, I recommend you don't argue for your own peace of mind, block the user and report the ask if you can.