New to a wonderful world of freedom

Her wrists and ankles bound. Her body stripped of clothing. Eyes blindfolded. She can hear him moving the instruments. Carefully trying to find the perfect one. Suddenly, she hears a woman cough. She begins to sweat. Her heartbeat quickens. He steps close to her gently running the falls of the leather flogger across her skin. He leans in close to her. "Shall we begin?"

For years she has built her walls. Carefully placing each brick to hide herself, keeping herself safe from the outside world. When he looks at her, touches her, and whispers that one word into her ear. The walls do no crumble. It is like they were never there. She is now standing there naked, trembling, exposed for the world to see.

He walks into the room and immediately finds her among all the people. A slight snarl comes across his face. Deep down inside him the beast stirs. His senses are heightened. His suit becomes constricting. The beast doesn't like to be bound. All it wants is to be free. She sees him standing there, distant, and umoving. She makes her way to him. He feels her come to him. He can smell her. Hears her heartbeat. She wraps her arms around him and kisses him. Immediately the beast calms and returns to that hidden place.

She comes to him on scrapped knees, head down, broken and unloved He stands her up, lifts her head, mends her, and loves everything about her. But like everything else there is a price.

God my heads pounding so bad I want to cry..... (Another reason I left the room.)

Last night we finally got to play again after a not so successful scene a couple of days ago. I needed to be able to show her She could trust me. So I told her that this scene was for intensity and trust. I started slowly and steadily built up the scene. At first I was a little nervous because I need her to trust me in every way. I had bought a New toy the night before and I wanted to incorporate it into the scene after I got her relaxed and into it. So I worked her beautiful body up and finally was able to work in the new toy. I would check her every so often to make sure she was still with me. The first time her knees buckled I stood her back up and waited until I got a response before I continued. I proceeded from there with caution. Watching her. The second time it happened I knew it was time to get her down. I held her tight and slowly untied her arms and let them drop to her side. I moved her to the bed and got her on it. I gave her, her reward for doing so well. After everything was over I wrapped her up in the blanket and held her. She was flying in outerspace. It makes me happy to know she trusts me enough to just let go and fly. I love this woman so much. Well this was definitely a successful scene.

Yesterday was the first time we got to play in almost a week. It was pretty intense for both of us. When it started I told her it was going to be. I was going to test her limits of pleasure and pain. I was also testing my limits. It was a very successful scene on both parts. She did beautifully as I expected she would. I feel pretty good about how I did also. She said she ended somewhere in the 3rd dimension of subspace. After it was all over I wrapped her up in the bed and petted her while waiting for the drop. We talked about it and laughed. God I love this woman.

In the course of aftercare, it's good to recognize that as the bottom comes down from their endorphin induced analgesia, they may feel chilled and start shivering, even in a hot room. If you've ever had general anesthesia for an operation, you may remember having a similar chilled feeling as you woke up. For this reason, it's good to have a blanket available for aftercare. It's especially nice for the bottom when you wrap a blanket around them since they feel enveloped in your care for them. In addition, a drink with a straw (they won't be holding their own cup for a while) is recommended since this experience tends to dry their mouths out. In fact, stopping the scene periodically to check on the bottom and to give them a sip of water is a good practice. Since during a scene, you may like to give g-spot orgasms as rewards (these very powerful orgasms usually result in a good release of endorphins as well as female ejaculation), this can also lead to dehydration.

How far you take her is up is for the two of you to decide. My experience is that if you take her past level three, she's probably not going to be much good for sex afterwards (nice to know if you have plans). Of course this is different for everyone, so if you have someone that takes more or less, that's not unusual. As always, you have to tailor your expectations to the individual. Keep an eye on circulation issues in extremities if you're using cuffs or ropes to bind the bottom because as she goes deeper into subspace, she's unlikely to know or tell you about problems she may be having. Once you get to level five or so, she's usually going to be pretty incoherent and may be incapable of calling out a safeword or telling you if there's a problem. The general rule should be that when she can't respond to, "How are you doing?", it's time to stop the scene and to take her into aftercare.

As dopamine drops after orgasm, prolactin immediately rises in both men and women, acting as a sexual satiation mechanism. Research shows that prolactin surges immediately after orgasm in both men and women. In addition, many see a rise in oxytocin after orgasm (more on that later), but prolactin is a much better indicator for orgasm. Men may experience this prolactin surge as the "roll over and snore" phenomenon. In women, the effects may be delayed for days. Like dopamine, prolactin profoundly affects our moods and behavior. Prolactin appears to be a stress hormone, associated with feelings of depression and alienation. In addition, cortisol levels gradually begins to increase, and this hormone is also associated with depression. This depression cocktail usually becomes most noticeable over the next few days as what we call subdr

Just like submissives, Doms need to be reassured also. Especially some one like myself who is still new to D/s. Subs don’t get upset if your Dom comes to and asks if he is fulfilling your needs. I see it as a good thing because it gives him/her an idea of their progress. It lets them know if there is an area that they may be lacking. It also should show you that your Dom cares enough about you and wants to make sure you are getting everything that you need and desire. If all they do is what they want and need and never ask you for your input you could start to feel neglected. Now on the other side of that coin. Doms, if your sub comes to you and asks if he/she is doing everything that you desire don’t hold back in telling them if there is an area they may be lacking in. Don’t be a down right dick about it but just sit down and discuss it with them. If you don’t you may cause resentments on both sides. I am still exploring this new world but these are things that I feel are important. Goodbye for now. #bdsm #dominance #submission

I texted her earlier and told her to be position when I get home from work. That she was in for a treat since she did all of her chores today. When I got here she did exactly what I asked of her. I came in and left her there in position while I took my shower and got ready for our scene. I enjoy watching her squirm so I let her stay there for a few minutes. I love looking at her and taking all of her in. She is Mine and she knows it. I finally walked to her and kissed her to let her know I was there and making sure she was ok. I got her to her feet and took one of my ropes and carefully and slowly tied it around her wrist and then did the same thing to the other one. She submits to me willfully and trusting. I carefully tie each rope to the hooks above her head with her arms fully extended. I love to see her like this. It shows me how trusting she is in me. I carefully tie a blindfold around her head. Look at my toys displayed across our bed and decide to start with the switch. To make things a little more interesting I pull her panties up into the crack of her ass then I reach around and pull it up into the split of her pussy. I slowly start tapping her on her ass. I then move up and down the back of her. Then I move to the front of her and continue tapping her with the switch repeating the same process I showed her backside. After I know that she is starting to get sensitive I move back to her backside and increase the strength of my hits until I start to see her beautiful white skin show the start of little pink welps. I do this across each cheek and again on her back. I stop for a second a check on her to make sure she is still with me. I place the switch back among my toys and grab the bullet. I move on front of her walking slowly and deliberately. I kneel down in front of her and pull her panties to the side and place the bullet inside of her panties and put them back in place positioning the bullet on her clit. I turn it up to the maximum strength and place the control in the waistband of her panties. I move back to the bed and grab my flogger. I move towards her and gently pass it across her skin. I then start striking her all across her back and ass. By this time the vibrator and the blows start taking a toll on her. I can tell because she has started to squirm with each blow when I deliver it. I continue working over her entire body. She is really squirming now. I love to see her squirm. I reach down and slowly pull the bullet out and gently rub her clit with my fingers. I move to the the back of her and pull her soaked panties off . I slide my hand up the middle of her legs and place my finger inside of her and slowly tease her pussy. I take it out and put it to her mouth. She doesn’t hesitate and starts sucking her juices off my finger. After about another 10 minutes of turning her skin into pink welps and teasing her pussy I finally untie her from the hooks. I tell her to kneel down and she does without hesitation. I pull my cock out of my pants and start fucking her mouth. She takes me all in and sucks me like she is worshipping my erection. I stand her back up and guide her to the bed and put her face down and start fucking her from behind. She has got such a tight little pussy. I pull back out of her and stand her up. I tell her to lay on the bed on her back. I get on top of her and push my cock inside of her. I can’t explain how good it feels to be inside of her. I start fucking her and tell her to cum for me and she does within seconds. I then feel my own build up so I pull out right as I am orgasming. I fall on top of her completely spent and completely happy. I truly love my sub. I will do anything for her and she will do the same for me. This is how I enjoy my submissive. Talk to you later.

It's how you are woken up that counts.