Ellie

“You feel the bulge in his pants” - implies that you are feeling some guy’s penis, may be sexy depending on context

hi everyone!!! I'm happy to be back <3333

uh no

there are dozens of girls in my notes telling me how scared the idea of suddenly liking men made them. it's such a pervasive idea that im constantly seeing freshly out girls terrified and asking for advice because they desperately don't want it to happen.

I've never once seen it even be used in a kink context come to think of it, it's always some poor scared trans lesbian desperate for it not to be true and a bunch of people saying oh don't worry about it if it happens it happens men are actually great tehe.

no it fucking isn't stop telling people this.

To suggest that your hormones will influence your attraction is honestly wildly misogynistic. "You're taking the woman drug so of course you are going to start liking men, real women are attracted to men." do you fucking hear yourself?

hrt will not fucking change your sexuality, it's not a dice roll, it won't "maybe" do it it isn't something to be fucking aware of fuck off

Peek a Boo! ♥️

uh no

there are dozens of girls in my notes telling me how scared the idea of suddenly liking men made them. it's such a pervasive idea that im constantly seeing freshly out girls terrified and asking for advice because they desperately don't want it to happen.

I've never once seen it even be used in a kink context come to think of it, it's always some poor scared trans lesbian desperate for it not to be true and a bunch of people saying oh don't worry about it if it happens it happens men are actually great tehe.

no it fucking isn't stop telling people this.

To suggest that your hormones will influence your attraction is honestly wildly misogynistic. "You're taking the woman drug so of course you are going to start liking men, real women are attracted to men." do you fucking hear yourself?

hrt will not fucking change your sexuality, it's not a dice roll, it won't "maybe" do it it isn't something to be fucking aware of fuck off

******************* Apparently transmascs are protected by systemic and social structures.

Also apparently trans women are uniquely sexually abused, and have nonexistent protections against it, unlike other people. Definitely don’t look at the sexual abuse rates of transmascs or anything.

( https://prismreports.org/2019/08/09/there-is-a-hidden-epidemic-of-violence-against-transmasculine-people/ )

Trans women do have it worse than most other groups, but they do not have it uniquely bad - other groups (e.g. transmascs) have it worse in some areas.

The TME label treats cis people, transmascs and many transneutral people as all the same group. This then goes on to erase the struggles of these groups, and imply ‘TME’ trans people have much more protection and privilege than they really do.

Most anti-trans laws affect TME trans people just as much as they do transfems, some even more so. Testosterone is harder to get than oestrogen. Binder bans, most reproductive health, greater infantilisation, transmascs are the focus of ‘your children are being brainwashed’ fearmongering, people are often bigoted against non-binary people even if they accept binary trans people, etc…

This is also used to push transmascs out of queer spaces for practically non-existent privilege, leaving them with basically nowhere to go. I have also heard so many stories from transmasc people who have been abused by transfems (this is not saying transfems are inherently abusive - just that they are capable of harm, certainly to a lesser extent than cis people), who have been afraid to come forward about their abuse in fear of being rejected or harassed by the exact people spreading TMA/TME bullshit, who are convinced any stories of a transfem doing harm are lies from abusive TMEs, leaving those transmascs very few places to go for support (e.g. the transandrophobia tags, which they are then called transmisogynistic for using).