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Welcome to The Valeria System!

Read our carrd! See @valthinksforonce for non-educational content! See @valhastrauma for our traumacore/schizophrenia blog! See @allofvalsthoughts for individual headmate posts! See @tobiisnthuman for his alterhuman blog! See @valeriawritesstuff for our writing blog! See our neopronouns here! We hoard flags! See them here!

This is a blog dedicated to teaching about all types of systems! We also take moodboard requests! We are a system of 20+ headmates. Our collective name is Valeria or Val and our collective pronouns are they/them and it/its. Our asks are always open!

BYF!

Endos, tulpas, etc. and self-diagnosed systems are welcomed here!

Please only call us headmates! We're not too fond of the term "alter."

We don't tag our messages or posts with proxies (it's just not something we're very comfortable with), so when referring to us please use our collective names and pronouns!

We are not a DID/OSDD system! So we rarely use DID-specific terminology.

I block and softblock freely! If you are anti-endo or anti-tulpa I will block you.

Syscourse is not welcome here!

DNI!

Exclusionists!

Homophobes/transphobes/racists/etc.

Supporters of "All lives matter" and pro-lifers

Ableists

Pro-ed blogs

Transphobes and TERFS

Anyone who bashes other religions

LGBTQ+ exclusionists (acephobes, polyphobes, etc.)

Transabled people

Fakeclaimers

Anti-kin

Asks!

Singlets are free to ask questions!

Please do not put hate into the ask box!

Any asks that contain beliefs of the people in the "DNI" section will be deleted.

Feel free to ask questions about anything! Our experiences, basic information on systems, etc. We love answering questions!

Information, tips, or tidbits about other systems or plurals are accepted too!

Important Posts!

Resource Masterlist

#plural blog #system blog #introduction #byf #dni #valeria system #pro endo #pro tulpa #actually plural #actually a system #pinned post #intro #intro post

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multiplicity-positivity

Here’s some positivity for systems who mask a lot!

For some systems, masking is crucial in order to keep the system safe. A system may mask for a wide variety of reasons, and sometimes may find it challenging to unmask. This post is for systems who find themselves often masking their plurality!

☀️ Shoutout to systems who have to mask daily in order to keep themselves safe!

☘️ Shoutout to systems who mask unconsciously or as a default!

🌻 Shoutout to systems who are trying to learn how to unmask!

🌿 Shoutout to systems who have to mask around some people but not others!

🌼 Shoutout to systems who have identity issues due to having to mask!

🍃 Shoutout to systems who want to learn how to unmask, but are struggling with the process!

⭐️ Shoutout to systems who can sometimes unmask, but who revert to masking without realizing!

🌱 Shoutout to systems who prefer to mask or who function better when masking!

For many, masking is an unfortunate necessity or a serious challenge to unlearn. But masking or hiding your multiplicity doesn’t make you any less plural or any less of a system! You’re still a welcome and important part of the plural community just the way you are - regardless of how much or how little you mask!

If your goal is to unmask more in the future, we hope that you will find the process insightful, fulfilling, and as easy as it possibly can be. No matter whether you want to unmask or need to mask more, please remember that we care about you and we’re rooting for you! Please treat yourself and your system with kindness, and take care!

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guerrillatech

hekatontarch

queertail

The site is '12ft Ladder' found here:

Show me a 10ft paywall, I’ll show you a 12ft ladder.

sola-whumping

Reblogging this on ALL my blogs because holy shit is it useful

aevios

For academic articles, scihub is often the way to go

#sorry about the post spam but also no i'm not

mrowmrowmrow9

Microaggressions against non-binary people that you might be saying without realizing it

"All of my trans brothers & sisters"/"Do you have any brothers or sisters?"

"Every man, woman, and child" (referring to all people)

"Are you a boy or a girl?"/"Is it a boy or a girl?"

"Both men and women"

"The opposite gender"

"Boys and girls! Settle down!"

"Good evening, ladies and gentlemen"

"He or she"/"His or her"/"Him or her"

Pleeeeeease stop saying these 🥰

Add your own if you have any <3

lifeafterpsychiatry

You are not superior to the person who is nonverbal. You are not superior to the person who needs a carer. You are not superior to the person who wears diapers. You are not superior to the person who can't manage a job or an education. You are not superior to the person who is intellectually and/or cognitively disabled. You are not superior to the people in psych wards and group homes. You are not superior to the person in the wheelchair. You are not superior to the person on disability benefits. You are not inherently superior to any of these people just by virtue of being more capable in comparison. Leave your ableism at the door or don't enter

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mxbutchtwink

LGBT infighting is so ridiculous when you apply it to real world situations. Imagine if a queer person was being harassed on the street and someone went, "IDK. They're (insert "problematic" identity here) so I don't want to help them :/" like who is this helping? How is this worth your time? We are family. Get it together.

thegaybitch15-deactivated202303

Reblog if your blog is not a terf safe space

quantum-d34th

Fuck off terfs.

theforesteldritch

A bill was introduced in Texas classing everyone with a Y chromosome as male on their birth certificate. Beyond the obvious transphobia, this is fucking horrific for intersex people. There are many *cis* women with a Y chromosome. There are many people assigned female at birth with a Y chromosome. This is an attack on trans people, yes, but this is an attack on intersex people. This is forced, horrifying misgendering upon diagnosis that will hurt and kill intersex people.

I’m lucky I live in Canada, but I’m angry and upset and furious. Fuck this shit.

spacelazarwolf

reminder that the sex on your birth certificate influences which medical procedures insurance companies will begrudgingly agree to cover. i have known multiple trans men who changed their gender marker and their insurance suddenly wouldn’t cover gynecological care anymore. if this happens to intersex people who need gynecological care but have a y chromosome, this will absolutely impact their ability to receive necessary medical care, and WILL cost some of them their health or even their lives. intersex people aren’t collateral damage of the trans genocide currently taking place in the united states. they are one of the targets.

telumendils

i really want to emphasize the fact that many of these recent bills aimed at denying trans minors gender-affirming care have special exceptions built in to allow for nonessential surgeries on intersex children. they want to make sure doctors can continue pressuring parents into putting their intersex kids through procedures that have no evidence of benefits and are well known to cause harm (cw on these articles for discussions of intersex medical abuse/trauma).

these bills are not designed to protect children, they're designed to eradicate sex and gender diversity. they want to force both trans and intersex people into their binary little boxes and it will do immense harm to both groups.

transformationsproject

Red Light Bill

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arsonistsam

Tennessee basically just did away with marriage equality????? Wait let me find article.

arsonistsam

Tennessee General Assembly Legislation

So this state house bill that was just passed allows clerks to not solemnize marriages that they disagree with due to religious or moral reasons. This means that same-sex marriages, interracial marriages… can be prevented because your clerk is against it.

arsonistsam

This is just another step to destroying civil rights in America. People tried to tell others that it would not stop with drag queens and medical transition. They are coming for interfaith marriage, they are coming for interracial marriage, they are coming for you.

arsonistsam

The bill could allow county clerks to deny marriage licenses to same-sex, interfaith, or interracial couples in Tennessee.

Unsure if I’m just the last person to have heard about this in my attempt at being relatively off-line but this is incredibly concerning.

socialistexan

Texas has filled a bill to ban transition care for Texans of any age. This is not a drill.

It was not and never was about "protecting kids."

They are coming for us all.

socialistexan

And before anyone says anything about "well that says public funds, if you private pay or have private insurance, you'll be fine!"

Well HB 41, HB 122, and HB 250 would also ban private health insurance from covering transition related care in the state of Texas.

We're past the what ifs and gotchas, this is real. They're coming after us. Help us, we're tiny population under extreme pressure, we need allies to put up or shut up.

pizzaback

Summary (2022-12-16) Relating to a prohibition on funding for gender reassignment. [Filed]

Moodboard for a puddle-loving golden retriever puppy!

#moodboard #yet another golden retriever puppy moodboard #and more to come

A moodboard for a nature-loving golden retriever puppy!

#moodboard #another golden retriever puppy one #cause i can #and i have so many photos of them #pics not mine #found on Pinterest

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Moodboard for a beach-loving golden retriever puppy! :)

#moodboard #dogkin #golden retriever puppy #ocean!!#and beach!#i got bored so.#moodboards #images not mine #found on pinterest haha

nightfallsystem-moved-deactivat

ENDOGENIC RESEARCH CARRD AS TEXT!

as the endogenic research carrd is down for who knows how long, due to me being eepy, very tired, exhausted, and a procrastinator, i will post all the links here. I feel like i owe it to you to give you this. anyone is free to copy paste these links to wherever. heck, you could even make your own endogenic research page! I actually encourage you to, please do!!

if there are any issues with this post please let me know!

-- endo research --

"There's no research on endogenics!" well that's wrong...

all of these must have sources / references, if i have made any mistakes please contact me.

Exploring the experiences of young people with multiplicity

Varieties of Tulpa Experiences: The Hypnotic Nature of Human Sociality, Personhood, and Interphenomenality.

NORMAL DIMENSIONS OF MULTIPLE PERSONALITY WITHOUT AMNESIA *

Tulpas and Mental Health: A Study of Non-Traumagenic Plural Experience

Multiplicity: An Explorative Interview Study on Personal Experiences of People with Multiple Selves**

Imaginary Friends: Helpful or Harmful?

Personality Characteristics of Tulpamancers and Their Tulpas

Transgender Mental Health - pages 157-165

Tulpamancy: Transcending the Assumption of Singularity in the Human Mind

*it makes you sign up for an account to access it **tw: purposeful misgendering

-- old sites --

"Endos are just a new fad!" wrong again...

These sites are dated from the time of when they were created.

Astraea's web - 1995

Disenchanted Forest FAQ - 2001

Kinhost.org - 2001

The Multiple Code - 2001

Four and Twenty - 2001

Multiplicity Is Not a "Disorder," - Unknown

MidContinuum - 1999

A breif history of midcontinuum - 2002

The Median Side - Unknown

-- other sites--

while these are not research, they provide good points

Debunking Sysmeds

Endogenic Proof Masterlist

-- points, opinions, and experiences --

these also are not research but they also provide good points. the asterisks may overlap in meaning but yknow, wanted to differentiate the points.

* Just opinion ** Experiences *** Has truth to it (can include having sites, archives, etc to back it up.)

Sysmed's TERF/transmed rhetoric**

A Brief History of the Use of 'System' in non-DID Space***

It’s Not Just a Tumblr Thing***

Why not just use "thoughtform"?**

-- other / unsorted --

The ICD says this ^

-- END ---

FAQ

questions or statements ive heard or thought of;

Q - this isnt true! these have no sources! A - please take a look at the links, all of them have sources, if they do not, bring this up with me so I can remove the link, thank you. I really doubt you can just say "no" to the word of a psychologist on a psychology topic, etc.

Q - can i add something to the carrd? A - yes! send me an ask, and ill check it out. It must have references/sources though.

Q - I cant access the carrd! A - the carrd is down due to the reasons listed in the top paragraphs.

Q - when will the carrd be done / up? A - sorry, I don't know.

NO DISCOURSE ON THIS POST OR I BITE YOU

#so important!!#endo resources #tulpa resources

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