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heyyyy i go by many names, but just call me Kieran and i primarily go by its pronouns-
my pronouns n other names kek: https://en.pronouns.page/@twinkle.fluff
dni- oh wait i no longer have one, doesn't mean i don't have boundaries.
i block liberally, use common sense please. if your blog has content on it that makes me uncomfortable, its not my fault if you get blocked and i ask that you don't come to me to unblock you.
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hi im moving accounts because of this one miserable fuck who's actively hurt me in ways that still affect me, fuck you for meddling with my emotions during a vulnerable time when i broke up with "general"(as i'll call him)and doing so to my FRIENDS who had issues with him. you muddled the waters and actively hurt my ex and i, i hope to god that should you bring your sorry ass back to me? that you be truthful and quit being a two-faced imbecil and apologize to the people YOU hurt. apologize to Aiden, apologize to "general", apologize to Abbi, apologize to Ross and apologize to me.
i doubt they'd see this post, so here's the new account: @parasitic-enos
i'll be shutting down @wafflebotz and exporting @technictix-fan to the new account or something.
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to the imbecilic dumbass who blasted fucking mirah carey christmas music in your stupid car passing by the goddamn shelter, fuck you.
The Ocean MLM flags and their creators: An analysis.
Trigger warning: Discussions of discourse, transmisia, racism, overall bigotry. This is probably the closest you will get to a discourse post from me (Though tbh, is it really discourse if I'm trying to spread the truth?) Most content is from an Insta post I made a while back. I am moving it to here as well for archival purposes as well as corrections. Heads up, this post will be SUPER hecking long (And I have no idea how to cut the posts down I'm sorry) Well I've been seeing stuff about the gay pride flags again. A lot of it being misinformation. I think it's time to debunk them one by one. Let's start off with myth number one: "It rips off the lesbian flag." There's millions of ways I can debunk this, but let's start with the simple ones. Fact: One MLM flag (Which I have referred to as the "Listerine" flag) actually came before the Sunset lesbian flag. (Sidenote: I lost the original and edited files when my previous computer broke but I did have the original screenshots saved on my private discord server which I use for screenshot storage, so I went ahead and saved them, and re-added the circles that I used to point out the dates).
(I would also like folks to keep this screenshot in mind, as it'll be important for debunking the next myth). Fact: The flags are actually *completely* different hue shifts. When I did a hue shift of both the MLM flags *and* Lesbian flags (both Sunset and Lipstick), I got different results.
(I forgot to make a diagram with the hue-shifted MLM flags, but I do remember what it was supposed to look like so I went ahead and made one instantly)
See the difference? All it takes is one hue shift to prove a myth wrong. Also, this is where things get really interesting. Outside of the original Lipstick Lesbian flag excluding trans lesbians and butches (Note: I consider the Lipstick Lesbian flag and Pink lesbian flag different flags), I think people forget the Lipstick Lesbian flag itself also has accusations of plagiarism. **Queer History 101 is now in session**.
This flag shown above is known as the Cougar flag. This flag was created around 2008 by a gay man named Fausto Fernos. He created the flag to bring light to sexism and ageism in the community (especially women's communities). It was inspired by the Bear Brotherhood flag. The Lipstick flag was created in 2010. And you can very much see the similarities between the Lipstick Lesbian flag and Cougar Flag. This is because the creator of the Lipstick flag stole the design of the Cougar flag and didn't give credit. I do not know if it was intentional, but knowing the Lipstick flag's creator's yikes history, I'm willing to make the bet. So basically, the Lipstick Lesbian flag itself is the one that is a stolen design, and not the MLM flags.
**This has been Queer History 101 with Shadow** Myth 2: The creator of the gay man flag is a transmed. Fact: A transmed actually reposted the flag and claimed it as their own, which caused folks to believe they were the creator.
Take a good look at the date. Now look at the date of the original post shown below (and just before anyone else does it, r/uselessredcircle. I'm too exhausted to screenshot the date so I'm just posting the screenshot again)
The creator of the flag has also expressed discomfort about transmeds using it (or, rather, reposting it for that matter lol) as well. Myth 3: The flag is bad because it has no meanings. Fact: While it's true the first flag didn't have meanings originally, that doesn't automatically mean the flag is bad. There are millions of pride flags out there that don't have meanings. Suppose we should stop using those flags now?
Myth 4: The creators are racist. This one is also incredibly false. Fact: Another user made a very poorly worded comment and was mistaken to be the creator. The creator of the second ocean flag has already made a statement on this one (Here). Additionally, as of late I've seen another rumor going around that the creators created a flag that was antiblack *and* fetishistic. That is also false. Nobody knows who created that flag. Last myth: The creators support Bi/Pan Lesbians. (SIDENOTE: Before anyone comes at me, I am a bi lesbian myself. I am simply pointing this out. And do take a look at my Mspec Lesbian exclusionism analysis for info on why excluding mspec lesbians is bad). Fact: While one of the creators did make some bi lesbian flags (as a request by the way), idk if that means support. The other creator, however, has already stated that he is staying away from the discourse surrounding them. Not partaking in discourse is NOT a stance on something.
Additional notes: -Not using a flag/label is NOT a stance on something, and saying otherwise makes you look late a gatekeeper. /nbh
-That being said, using a specific flag does NOT make anyone a bad person. Yes, even if someone chooses to reclaim the pink flag! (Speaking of, I highly encourage reclaiming it, since it's very pretty!) -Flag discourse overall is just stupid. Go do something more productive if you can. /nf /nbh Additional info/sources (Warning: Posts may contain reclaimed slurs. There may also be exclusionist rhetoric in some. However, I am still linking them as I still consider them helpful). Fausto's statement regarding the cougar flag being stolen. Gayflagblog's FAQ (Archived version) A twitter thread with more info. (Archived version) Spreadsheet of the allegations against the creators (Note: This one is formatted a little weird, so proceed with caution). A carrd debunking some of the myths around the current Ocean flag. (Do note the creator behind this one *is* anti-mspec lesbian. I am still linking it since it has a lot of information). A carrd featuring other MLM flags. The site I used for the hue-shifts.
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Irish free suicide helpline: 01-116 123
because there's a genuine lack of canadian listed(besides kids help phone)hotlines, here's a small list. i cannot guarantee that these are fully bilingual or multilingual. also included a hotline for residential school survivor's.
Talk Suicide Canada: 1-833-456-4566
Canadian Indian Residential Schools Crisis Line: 1-866-925-4419
First Nations and Inuit Hope for Wellness 24/7 Help Line: 1-855-242-3310
Trans LifeLine ā All Ages: 1-877-330-6366
additionally if your in need of crisis/emergency lines specifically to your province and city to save yours or someone elses life, here's a website that can be incredibly helpful: https://thelifelinecanada.ca/suicide-prevention-crisis-centre-contact-information/crisis-centres/canadian-crisis-centres/
this is single handedly the greatest twitter meltdown.
gonna lay the spiciest take of the modern era, if someone does something shitty and they happen to have a D/A(or "meIRL") and are open about their psychosis.. don't fucking reality check them OR actively break their boundaries or intentionally do ableist garbage because they messed up, for gods sake i shouldn't even have to say this and what i just said might anger people but fuck man apparently i to explain why you shouldn't do shit like this! you can be critical of their actions and want better if someone messes up without being a god forsaken ill minded malicious woefully stupid dingbat who's first thought is "i wanna fuck someone up because they did a bad thing and its only fair to trigger them" bitchass petty prick that i'd avoid or avidly despise or both, its not that hard to have common sense; nor is it rocket science.
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I cannot emphasize enough how much of a life hack it is to exclusively be friends with, date and marry people who are not constantly mean assholes to you.
This may seem like basic common sense, but one interesting (and kind of terrifying) thing I recently read was that some individuals who grew up in an emotionally abusive environment find that their anxiety level actually decreases in the presence of those who are mean or overly critical of them because it's familiar. Their nervous systems are hard wired to react to that kind of treatment as "normal" in the sense that it knows what to do with it--what defense mechanisms to employ when, etc.
Meanwhile, kinder, more peaceful, and healthier relationships are quite a dramatic adjustment, and ironically feel less predictable because of all the threats that are absent and never materialize. It feels suspicious or too good to be true, which in turn ratchets up hypervigilance and hyper-arousal. Instead of knowing what BS is coming because it always does, there's the nebulous sense that the other shoe is just waiting to drop. Safety and respect can feel the most unsafe for a while, because as far as the traumatized nervous system is concerned, those things don't exist, or if they do in any form, there must be a million unseen strings attached.
This is part of what traps a lot of people in abusive relationships, consistently draws them to want to please assholes, or keeps them moving from one unhealthy environment to the next--a highly toxic comfort of familiarity where being on the receiving end of cruelty feels like "home".
