i find it fucking despicable that pride month is 2 days from over and the queer community hasn’t made ANY fucking noise about the memo on olmstead from the DOJ in the us. they want to segregate disabled people again and you guys don’t give a single fuck. the ableism of the queer community never ceases to amaze disappoint and enrage me.
they want to imprison and exterminate all of us for money and you are silent.
the nazis gassed the disabled people first (look up aktion t-4 or watch the documentary disposable humanity). your willful ignorance to our plight is not unnoticed and it will not save you from meeting the same fate. your feigned sympathy for good lefty points will not save you. fighting for us before we are gone gives you the best chance of survival.
okay so it seems like some of you don’t know what a memo from the DOJ is (maybe that’s why you’re not grasping the urgency here) but it’s basically a letter to all the states that says “if you sue to overturn this supreme court decision we will do it, here’s the arguments you should use.” it turns taking disabled people’s right to not be involuntarily warehoused into nothing more than an open-note test. and guess what? states are already suing (look up texas v. kennedy).
our time is running out.
fight for your disabled siblings in texas and across the country. fight for us NOW. fight for us HARD.
first they came for the immigrants, then they came for the activists. now they are coming for disabled people. you will be next unless you fight
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hey trans ally it’s genuinely awesome that you’re sharing informative and positive posts about trans women but can i ask a quick question about why the only time you ever share a post including trans men, mascs or non-binary people it’s when they’re being told to shut up and stop making everything about them even when part of a conversation that’s supposed to include them in the first place? i just found it interesting. anyway, i hope you’re also normal about trans women and not just being performative to cover up your exclusionary worldview or anything bc that would suck.
You'll read a post that is full of the most violently transphobic language directed at trans men and you'll be like damn what is this asshole's deal with being so unable to connect with people outside their demographic and then you go to block and the OP *is* a trans man. And then suddenly it's like ohhhh the reactionary rhetoric really got to you. You are so consumed by guilt at "becoming a man" that you really buy into all the essentialism as a way to absolve yourself as "one of the good ones" please god find some self love you make me wanna hit you
And you'll have a trans woman stick up for trans men and then get the most vile transphobic language sent her way and you're like damn, people love being really shit to trans women on this site and then the person saying this shit *is* another trans woman. And then suddenly it's like ohhh you are so consumed by the idea of some sort of inherent curse by being assigned maleness that the way to atone is to distance yourself as much as possible and punish anyone who blurs the line you need to keep to "maintain your innocence."
Scum manifesto radfeminism is such a cancer in that it leaves trans people to deep fry in guilt about an utter non-issue while wriggling away from actually being responsible for the harm they are causing to their own circles and everyone else. You cannot wokely use essentialism, AMAB trans people people are not doomed by birth assignment--that is terf shit. AFAB trans people are not doomed by "choosing maleness"--that is terf shit. Y'all should drop pretending it's transfeminsim and just become evangelists the way you are centering your theory around sin.
I freaking hate seeing queer creators that I enjoy and look up to (especially TRANSMASC/TRANS MEN creators!!) be so awful about trans men and mascs trying to talk about how we’re oppressed. Like it’s most definitely not “only trans women” who are being attacked right now.
T has /been/ a controlled substance. “ROGD” was aimed at “mutilated girls”. Do none of you remember the Irreversible Damage book. That Joanne Rowling specifically got mad at gender-neutral language regarding menstruation and periods and said that people transition because of “the allure of escaping womanhood”.
Do all of you think erasure = safety? And that we only are “accidentally” and “less importantly” hurt?
We are all shot at by the same gun, but you still turn the knife on the rest of your kin.
if you’re hoarding resources like insulin to create a monopoly and killing people with artificial shortages, not only do you deserve to have your property infringed upon, but you patently should be executed by the mourning relatives of diabetics who died of ketoacidosis because of it.
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my older sister is a trans woman and i am a trans man. she's always supported me as i came out as trans years ago, but she only just realised she's trans. since she realised, she's been very obviously slipping into trf tumblr & twitter spaces, and ranting about transandrophobic ideology to me, her trans brother.
multiple times she's told me "isn't it funny how estrogen is the 'beautiful, feminine, soft hormone' and testosterone makes you fat and disgusting?" KNOWING i a. have ripped myself apart desperate for testosterone and b. am going on it soon. she's ranted to me about how "trans women are the only kind of trans people viewed badly", and how feminine men are "just leaching off of trans women's culture". it hurts seeing my sister fall down pipelines like these, i don't like being scared that she might see some hateful "tme transandrobro" post that makes her view me differently.
This is really saddening. I hope you can talk to her about why that's not good, and I'm sorry it took so long for me to get to your ask.
>ask if its sexual appreciation of trans men or a boypussy fetish
>they dont understand
>explain that being attracted to trans men and talking about it is normal and good but trans men have all sorts of different bodies and sexual preferences and a lot of trans men dont have vaginas or dont want anything to do with that part of themselves and even a lot of trans men who do have vaginas and like using them during sex dont want to just be fetishized for being a man with a vagina
>they laugh and say "we love and support trans men sir"
unfortunately i don't want to be anything. i have found out i am trans based on the fact i am. its not something i want. honestly with the way people treat trans men, i dont want this for myself. but the only way i can be happy is to pursue transition, and that's how i have found my happiness. within myself i feel secure and great.
but if i had the choice to be trans? i wouldn't take it. this world is insanely cruel. and obviously this is my own take. being trans isn't awful but i... i am a binary trans man and i feel like i have to be entirely stealth to not receive unwanted attention like hate or fetishization
if i am out and proud about being a trans man, i am pursued by lesbians who are into trans mascs when personally that makes me feel dysphoric as fuck. i am a masculine hairy man into masculine hairy men. it feels weird for lesbians to be attracted to me. i am also pursued by straight men because i have a vagina and the possibility of boobs (i bind but idk if these people know that) and they either wanna "fix" me or just treat me like a fleshlight
if i am out and proud about being a trans man, i receive a bunch of misandry and hate and transphobia.
it's either one extreme or the other. it's very rare when i am seen as a man and just accepted as that without some sort of extreme prejudice towards masculinity and being a man or even just being trans.
if i could choose this, i wouldn't choose to be something people hate. i would choose to just be happy in my own body and find a way to exist that way. but i tried that and all it did was make me more depressed than anything. i have never felt so secure in my body than as a man. but it doesn't change the way i feel in regards to how others treat me.
i can't control being trans any more than i can control the foods i like, my favorite colors, smells that repulse me, and the people i find attractive. if i could control anything it would be this. id rather not be hated by everyone based on something i wish i could control but unfortunately i cannot.
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Wow this post complaining about Trump wanting to kill transgender people is great and— oh. Besides quoting him it only talks about trans women being killed and threatened. Cool. Cool. No other trans people are being killed or threatened, of course not. By "transgender people" he surely meant "trans women only".
It's impressive how many ways this intersects and overlaps with bigoted ideas about most other marginalized groups. To act like those different from you by some arbitrary uncontrollable circumstance are lacking in skills that disability, economic status, etc. can impact and to then make that a point of contention is quite messed up. But I get the sense that the response to pointing this out will be quoting the "how dare you say we piss on the poor!" meme.
If you want to support intersex people, stop using the TMA/TME binary.
I’m saying this as an intersex person.
The general consensus (from what I’ve seen) is that TMA means “transmisogyny affected” and TME means “transmisogyny exempt”. At first it sounds like a good binary, but quickly falls apart once you see its flaws.
In usage, TMA refers exclusively to transfeminine or “AMAB” people. It does not acknowledge the transmisogyny faced by those who would be exempt from it.
For example, a gender-nonforming cis woman would face transmisogyny for looking like a transgender woman. Would she still be TME, despite being a target?
An intersex man would be considered TME, but if he goes through an estrogenising puberty that makes him look feminine and become a target of transmisogyny, would he become TMA or stay TME?
Is a non-binary person TME or TMA? I know it depends on their assigned gender at birth, which makes the whole point of this flawed system completely moot.
And ignoring all those said flaws, what is the point of inventing entirely new binaries just to show who is “exempt” from bigotry, when everyone can face it one way or another?
What about the entire intersex community, who can’t neatly fit into every single binary you make? What about those who can’t be categorised as “TME”, nor “TMA”?
It is simply intersexist in almost every way. There is no point of showing who can be and can’t be affected by transmisogyny when you refuse to acknowledge the millions of people who don’t neatly fit in a binary.
And if your first thought is some form of “I don’t care” or “they’re TME by default” then you are the problem. This sort of binary is actively harming the community and only putting everybody in a divide.
Stop making useless binaries and actually focus on the real problems that plague the world!
Focus on the transgender men who are being silenced because of their assigned sex at birth!
Focus on the intersex babies being forcibly mutilated before they can even crawl!
Focus on the transgender people facing execution, possibly being stoned or flogged for the mere act of being transgender!
Focus on SOMETHING ELSE! Do a change in the world! Advocate for your community! Protest transphobic laws, regulations and policies!
Stop focusing on the West where you are (rightly) valued and help the people who are being actively kicked out of their homes, killed, and mutilated against their will for being queer!
And most importantly, stop referring to yourself as “TME” or “TMA”. It helps no one and only signals to the wrong people. It actively divides the community and harms everybody.
My own country has me banned from a normal life for being queer. I face a potential death penalty for being gay. I won’t even be able to go on Hajj if anyone finds out I’m transgender. I won’t even be able to practice my culture!
I am forced to stay in a shell that isn’t mine.
And I’m supposed to care about being “TME” and respecting every single order from radfems who live on the opposite side of the globe, who have never faced the possibility of being murdered by their own parents.
I am supposed to respect the same people who hate my mere existence, who want me dead for the mistake of being a man, while my parents actively talk about the “disease” that is queerness and how they want to protect me from it.
I am supposed to shut my mouth and let the people who mutter “theyfab”, “transandrobro”, and every single other slur under the sun at me speak for the entire community.
While my own people are ACTIVELY being shunned out of society for acting gay. For crossdressing. For having a face that looks even slightly feminine.
While my own people are being forced to “get fixed”. To undergo genital surgery for being intersex. While they are being actively murdered for having ambiguous genitalia.
And you care about me not being your model view of a good trans man?
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*taps mic* the queer community needs to make more effort to make pride events accessible despite corporate influence on pride and structural inaccessibility.
the queer community needs to hype up disability pride month (july btw) while queer pride month is happening. the queer community needs to amplify disabled queer experiences.
the queer community needs to recognize intersex people and how many of us have disabilities related to our intersex variation - and this Still Does Not Prove Eugenicists Right.
the queer community needs to fight ableism and love disabled people. queer or not. also quick question. why do you think the right paints us as insane predators.
hey party people, I’m here to talk about my experience with transmisandry—
“you can’t call it transmisandry, misandry isn’t real and is an MRA talking point”
ok, my experience with transandrophobia—
“you’re not experiencing oppression for being a man, you’re just experiencing misogyny and transphobia (but you can’t call it transmisogyny, that doesn’t apply to you)”
ok, my experience with isomisogyny—
“you don’t experience misogyny, you’re a man, and you can’t call it your own special brand of misogyny anyways, you don’t have it worse than anyone else”
ok, my experience with anti-transmasculinity—
“transmasculinity is rewarded, as is all expressions of masculinity in this society. You’re transitioning into privilege”
ok, my experience with transandromisia—
“you don’t experience oppression, look at all these stupid words you made up to make yourself feel special you little birthday boy tMRA”
ok, how about we talk about your experience with shutting the fuck up and not taking others talking about their own oppression personally, since clearly you can’t stand hearing about us for even one second.
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