Under Her Spell

To have the best online experience

Many subs are skeptical a good D/s relationship is possible online, but it is.  Here’s how.

Learn Her schedule and DM when She is likely to be online.

Be consistent.  At least one DM per day.  One DM every 5-10 days is just annoying.

Don’t wait for Her to DM you.  Initiate to show interest and readiness to serve.

It always takes more words than you think.  2-4 words are seldom helpful.  Communicate fully. (Using a phone to DM is less helpful - you tend to keep it too short. A laptop/keyboard is better.)

Follow Mistress’ guidance on the frequency and nature of your DMs.  Tell Her your thoughts fully, to give Her something to respond to and control.  Then accept that control and adapt.

DM if you’re there, even if you’re pretty sure She is not.  If She’s interested, She’ll see you and respond to it later.

Don’t assume all the captions are absolutely true of Her.  If She’s real, She’ll have Her own ideas.  Be willing to adjust your in-head fantasies to what She wants of you.

If She’s away for a while, respect Her time.  Don’t get demanding.

Be honest, of course, or there’s little point.  Do you want a real relationship or just a fantasy / amusement? Don’t tell Her you’re doing things you aren’t.  Do not tell Her you are not doing things that you are doing.  If you do this, you are just using Her as your own fantasy.

Satin & cage.