undaunted courage

Seeing as how the hurricane is destined to hit the east coast of Florida and possibly other parts of the US here’s a checklist of things you’ll need in case of a power outage.

Flashlights, (battery operated) lanterns, candles

Canned foods such as chili, soup, chef boyarde

Peanut butter and bread

Water both in bottles & gallons

Dry pet food for your pets

Charcoal or firewood

Matches and lighters

Batteries in AA, AAA & 6V

Tampons, pads, and deodorant

A portable phone charger for each member of your family

Bags of ice + coolers

Toilet paper

5 Gallon gas can

A waterproof wrist watch

First Aid Kit

Bug Spray

Books, playing cards, and board games (trust me, during a power outage it gets boring AF bc time feels like it’s running slow)

Also somethings to do before the Hurricane hits you

Make sure to do all your laundry - there’s nothing worse then having no fresh clothes to wear because of no power.

Set all your Soundcloud/Spotify playlists on offline mode - some good music will help make the hurricane less dreadful

Now is the time to finish up that jug of milk and empty your fridge of anything that could spoil/rot without refrigeration.

Hours before the hurricane hits, If you have a bath tub fill it up so that you can get running water for your toilet.

Hey everybody! So I know lately I’ve been getting real personal with y'all on this blog and I’m so sorry for that. This blog should be a place where you can read fun headcanons, not have to deal with my issues.

So I’m going to try to keep that at a minimum from now on, but I do have one more thing, that after some careful thinking I decided to promote on this blog. I hope it doesn’t make anyone upset or uncomfortable.

A few days ago I became homeless and it’s been hard on me because I don’t have a place to stay or money coming in for food. It’s very serious and that’s why I’m making a post. I have WiFi because of free, public places but that’s about it. The place I’m at is a very small town with not a lot of resources to help the homeless or jobs in general, but if you want to know more feel free to send me a message or ask.  This is a link to a post I made on a different blog (a while back), for a more detailed, in depth explanation of what’s going on if you want to read about it, here (I’m Ama/Lily). This tells you all about why I’m homeless and some things I’ve been through, however I never want to make anyone uncomfortable so don’t feel as if you have to read it. 

So instead of clogging up your feed with a long list of my problems, I’m instead just going to post donation information. 

Now, I will NEVER try to force anyone to donate, guilt trip or be constantly up in your business about it. If you decide to donate, thank you so much because you will be helping me out tremendously, whether through only $3 or more. But if you can’t that’s totally okay! I understand that a lot of people don’t have money to spare and I’ll never be unkind about it. 

If you can’t donate though, please please please signal boost this! Just getting this out there could really help me!

And if you just like my writing and want to support me, that’s great too! So here are the links to my Ko-Fi page and my PayPal. On Ko-Fi you can buy me an anon (if you want) coffee for a small price ($3) or if you have a PayPal account can donate directly there. 

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I’ll probably only reblog this every once in a while so I don’t constantly annoy y’all but it’s really important to me so like I said, if you could please signal boost this I’d really appreciate it! 

Thanks everyone for putting up with me, I love this blog and all the great tf fans on here and it means a lot that you like my content. <3 

Hey everybody! So I know lately I’ve been getting real personal with y'all on this blog and I’m so sorry for that. This blog should be a place where you can read fun headcanons, not have to deal with my issues.

So I’m going to try to keep that at a minimum from now on, but I do have one more thing, that after some careful thinking I decided to promote on this blog. I hope it doesn’t make anyone upset or uncomfortable.

A few days ago I became homeless and it’s been hard on me because I don’t have a place to stay or money coming in for food. It’s very serious and that’s why I’m making a post. I have WiFi because of free, public places but that’s about it. The place I’m at is a very small town with not a lot of resources to help the homeless or jobs in general, but if you want to know more feel free to send me a message or ask.  This is a link to a post I made on a different blog (a while back), for a more detailed, in depth explanation of what’s going on if you want to read about it, here (I’m Ama/Lily). This tells you all about why I’m homeless and some things I’ve been through, however I never want to make anyone uncomfortable so don’t feel as if you have to read it. 

So instead of clogging up your feed with a long list of my problems, I’m instead just going to post donation information. 

Now, I will NEVER try to force anyone to donate, guilt trip or be constantly up in your business about it. If you decide to donate, thank you so much because you will be helping me out tremendously, whether through only $3 or more. But if you can’t that’s totally okay! I understand that a lot of people don’t have money to spare and I’ll never be unkind about it. 

If you can’t donate though, please please please signal boost this! Just getting this out there could really help me!

And if you just like my writing and want to support me, that’s great too! So here are the links to my Ko-Fi page and my PayPal. On Ko-Fi you can buy me an anon (if you want) coffee for a small price ($3) or if you have a PayPal account can donate directly there. 

Ko-Fi

PayPal

I’ll probably only reblog this every once in a while so I don’t constantly annoy y’all but it’s really important to me so like I said, if you could please signal boost this I’d really appreciate it! 

Thanks everyone for putting up with me, I love this blog and all the great tf fans on here and it means a lot that you like my content. <3 

He had started the research looking into “hysteria” which at the time was really usually referring to women’s symptoms of PTSD. It turned out that the reason so many woman had these symptoms is because so many of them had experienced sexual violence– especially CSA and incest at the hands of their fathers. 

At first he was making real progress, and it was through working with these women that he discovered that talk therapy could be used to treat trauma. The symptoms of PTSD were lessened when women were able to safely speak about their experiences out loud and be believed. 

But it wasn’t the women who paid for the therapy. It was their fathers, husbands, the same men who were perpetuating the violence in the first place. And Freud didn’t want to validate his patients (the women) if it meant making his clients (the men) unhappy.

So he came up with a new idea. These symptoms weren’t from trauma. The memories weren’t real. These women were just sexual beings as children and had penis envy and it made them lust for their fathers and fantasize about the rape that they had reported to him. That’s where the shittiest parts of Freud’s theories emerged. Another part of it besides just the monetary aspect, though, was that there was a feminist movement on the fringes starting up at the time and by publishing work about women’s CSA he would be aligning himself with it and therefore losing support, respect, funding, prestige from his male peers and from the psychological community at large. He literally made that gross victim blaming shit up to keep his own reputation with these fucks and to make sure he still got publication and fame.

By coming up with fake theory about little girls fantasizing about incest he not only fucked over generations of women, the feminist movement that was arising, and the entire psychology field for years to come, but he also completely swept away any progress made in understanding trauma and so we didn’t have any clue why men coming back from war had “hysteria” like women during WWI.

And our research on PTSD and trauma is still lacking to this day, especially because of the stigma that maybe traumatized people deserved it or wanted it or imagined it. People don’t want to believe it’s real. Perpetrators of traumatic violence want everyone to forget about it, not acknowledge it, or trivialize it.