Umm Layla

The Righteous Woman In Paradise Is More Beautiful

Imam Qurtubi [رحمه الله] said:

❝The state of the believing Muslim woman in Paradise is better than that of the Hoor Al-A'yin [women of Paradise] she also has a higher status and is more beautiful.

The righteous woman is from the people of the Duniya, when she enters Paradise she enters it as a reward for good deeds and an honour for her from Allaah for her Deen and righteousness.

As for the Hoor [woman of Paradise] who is from the delight of Paradise was created in Paradise for other than her and is placed as a reward for the believer for good deeds.

There is a huge difference between the one who enters Paradise as a reward for her good deeds and who was created as a reward for the person who has good deeds.

The first is a righteous woman who is a queen, a lady who has a high status, the second is the Hoor Al-A'yin even though she has a great status and beauty but as far as is understood by the people, she is lesser than a queen, and she follows the command of her master the believing man, Allaah created her as a reward for him.❞

Pause for a moment and look honestly at the path we are walking.

They celebrated Christmas, and some Muslims joined them under the excuse of “It is only the New Year.”

They celebrated Mother’s Day, and some Muslims followed under the claim of honouring parents.

They celebrated Valentine’s Day, and some Muslims imitated them under the banner of increasing love and affection.

Yet when a Sunnah from the Sunnahs of the Chosen One ﷺ passes before us, we abandon it lightly, saying: “It is only a Sunnah; it is not obligatory.”

What a painful imbalance.

We rush eagerly toward borrowed celebrations, yet hesitate when it comes to the guidance of our own Prophet ﷺ.

This reality was foretold with striking clarity by the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Abu Saʿīd al-Khudrī, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet ﷺ said:

“You will surely follow the ways of those who came before you, hand span by hand span and arm’s length by arm’s length, until even if they were to enter the hole of a lizard, you would enter it as well.”

They said, “O Messenger of Allah, do you mean the Jews and the Christians?”

He said, “Who else?”

This ḥadīth was narrated by Imām al-Bukhārī.

This was not a warning meant for a distant generation. It is a mirror held up to our time.

ʿUmar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb, may Allah be pleased with him, understood the danger of imitation with profound insight. Al-Bayhaqī narrated with a ṣaḥīḥ chain that ʿUmar, may Allah be pleased with him, said:

“Do not enter upon the polytheists in their churches on the day of their festival, for indeed Allah’s anger descends upon them.”

And he also said:

“Avoid the enemies of Allah during their festivals.”

These reports are recorded by Imām al-Bayhaqī in as-Sunan al-Kubrā and cited by Ibn al-Qayyim in Aḥkām Ahl al-Dhimmah (1/723).

The matter did not stop there. ʿAbdullāh ibn ʿAmr ibn al-ʿĀṣ, may Allah be pleased with him, issued a warning that shakes the heart of anyone who reflects upon the Hereafter. Al-Bayhaqī narrated with a good chain (isnād jayyid) that he said:

“Whoever lives in the lands of the non-Arabs, celebrates their Nīrūz and their Mahrajān, and imitates them until he dies upon that state, will be resurrected with them on the Day of Resurrection.”

This narration is also mentioned by Ibn al-Qayyim in Aḥkām Ahl al-Dhimmah (1/723–724).

This issue is not about harshness, nor about cutting ties, nor about lacking kindness. Islam commands justice, mercy, noble character, and excellence in dealing with all people. But Islam also preserves identity. It draws clear and uncompromising boundaries in belief, practice, and loyalty—boundaries meant to guard the heart and protect the religion from slow erosion. Christmas is not a harmless date on a calendar, nor a neutral celebration stripped of belief. It is a religious festival rooted in a creed other than Islām. When Muslims decorate, congratulate, or partake—under the excuse of culture, courtesy, or “just the season”—those boundaries are quietly crossed. The heart becomes accustomed, the line begins to blur, and what was once rejected becomes familiar. Holding firm at such moments is not harshness; it is faithfulness. It is choosing the Sunnah over imitation, clarity over compromise, and Islām over borrowed celebrations.

The waiting of Yaqub علیه‌السلام longing to be reunited with his separated son,

The waiting of Ibrahim علیه‌السلام for decades before he was granted a child,

The waiting of Ayub علیه‌السلام suffering an illness for years before being restored to good health

The waiting of Nuh علیه‌السلام tirelessly calling people to the truth over a lifetime,

The waiting of Musa علیه‌السلام for years before Firawn was finally defeated and drowned,

Your great ideas are thanks to the brain He gave you. The knowledge He taught you. The remarkable work you do is thanks to the hands He gave you. The health He gifted you.

You accomplished, because of the the will, He gave you, the time He gave you. The intelligence He gave you. You invented things and built things and solved problems because Allah inspired you.

The resources, the money, the helpful people in your life, Allah gave you.

⋆𐙚 ⟡ pray

​​​​⋆𐙚 ⟡ drink water

​​​​⋆𐙚 ⟡ be kind to others

⋆𐙚 ⟡ get enough sleep

⋆𐙚 ⟡ practice gratitude

⋆𐙚 ⟡ get some fresh air

​​​​⋆𐙚 ⟡ be kind to yourself

​​​​⋆𐙚 ⟡ take your medicine

​​​​⋆𐙚 ⟡ have something to eat

This worldly life is no more than play and amusement. But the Hereafter is indeed the real life, if only they knew.

Reminder to myself

This Dunya's tests are inevitable, but true faith is shown by relying on Allah in both hardship and ease. When trials strike, a believer’s first response should be to turn to Allah with sincerity, patience, and reliance, knowing that every difficulty is an opportunity to grow closer to Him.

type of acids sheet

Salicylic Acid – Best for oily and acne-prone skin. It penetrates deep into the pores, unclogs blackheads and whiteheads, controls excess oil, and prevents breakouts.

Glycolic Acid – Ideal for normal to oily skin. It exfoliates the top layer, brightens the skin, improves texture, and reduces fine lines and hyperpigmentation.

Lactic Acid – Suitable for dry and sensitive skin. It gently exfoliates while providing hydration, making it great for dullness and rough texture without irritation.

Mandelic Acid – Best for sensitive and acne-prone skin. It helps with uneven skin tone, reduces breakouts, and provides mild exfoliation without irritation.

Azelaic Acid – Works for all skin types, including sensitive skin. It reduces redness, fades hyperpigmentation, treats acne, and calms rosacea.

Kojic Acid – Best for hyperpigmented and sun-damaged skin. It helps lighten dark spots, melasma, and discoloration caused by acne scars or sun exposure.

Tranexamic Acid – Ideal for all skin types struggling with stubborn pigmentation. It effectively reduces melasma, post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation (PIH), and sunspots.

Hyaluronic Acid – Suitable for all skin types, especially dry and dehydrated skin. It deeply hydrates, plumps fine lines, and retains moisture for a youthful look.

Polyglutamic Acid – Great for dry and dehydrated skin. It locks in moisture, provides long-lasting hydration, and enhances the skin’s elasticity.

Ascorbic Acid (Vitamin C) – Best for dull, uneven, and aging skin. It brightens, reduces pigmentation, fights free radicals, and boosts collagen production.

Ferulic Acid – Works for all skin types, particularly those using Vitamin C. It enhances the antioxidant power of Vitamin C and E, preventing premature aging.

Ceramides (Fatty Acids) – Essential for dry and sensitive skin. They repair and strengthen the skin barrier, preventing water loss and irritation.

Linoleic Acid (Omega-6 Fatty Acid) – Ideal for acne-prone and oily skin. It reduces clogged pores, balances oil production, and supports a healthy skin barrier.

Ellagic Acid – Good for sun-damaged and aging skin. It protects against UV damage, brightens skin, and provides antioxidant benefits.

Cinnamic Acid – Suitable for all skin types. It has anti-inflammatory properties and helps protect against environmental damage.

Succinic Acid – Best for oily and acne-prone skin. It controls sebum production, fights acne-causing bacteria, and soothes inflammation.

How to choose the right skincare acid for ur skin type

Oily & Acne-Prone Skin

Salicylic Acid (BHA): Penetrates deep into pores to remove excess oil and prevent breakouts.

Azelaic Acid: Reduces acne, fades dark spots, and calms redness.

Succinic Acid: A gentle anti-inflammatory that helps control breakouts.

Dry & Dehydrated Skin

Lactic Acid (AHA): Exfoliates while hydrating the skin.

Hyaluronic Acid: Retains moisture and plumps the skin.

Mandelic Acid: A mild exfoliant that improves texture without drying.

Combination Skin

Glycolic Acid (AHA): Brightens skin and smooths texture.

Salicylic Acid (BHA) (my bff🦅) : Controls oil production in the T-zone.

Hyaluronic Acid: Hydrates dry areas while balancing oil.

Sensitive Skin

Mandelic Acid: A gentle AHA that exfoliates with minimal irritation.

Azelaic Acid: Soothes inflammation and reduces redness.

PHA (Polyhydroxy Acids): Provides mild exfoliation while boosting hydration.

Hyperpigmentation & Dark Spots

Kojic Acid: Brightens skin and reduces discoloration.

Tranexamic Acid: Fades stubborn dark spots and melasma.

Glycolic Acid (AHA): Speeds up cell turnover for an even skin tone.

Aging & Wrinkles

Glycolic Acid (AHA): Stimulates collagen production and smooths fine lines.

Ferulic Acid: Enhances antioxidant protection and stabilizes vitamin C.

Ascorbic Acid (Vitamin C): Brightens skin and fights free radical damage.

Common Mistakes When Using Skincare Acids

Using skincare acids can transform your skin, but when used incorrectly, they can cause irritation, sensitivity, or even worsen skin concerns. Here are some common mistakes to avoid:

1. Over-Exfoliating

Many people think using glycolic or salicylic acid daily will give them faster results, but excessive exfoliation weakens the skin barrier. This can lead to redness, peeling, breakouts, and sensitivity. (especially for oily skin)

Solution: Use exfoliating acids (AHAs/BHAs) 2-3 times per week and always listen to your skin. If it feels irritated, take a break pleaaase

2. Skipping Sunscreen

Acids like glycolic, lactic, and salicylic acid increase your skin’s sensitivity to the sun. Without SPF, you risk sunburn, premature aging, and even worsening of dark spots.

Solution: Always use a broad-spectrum SPF 30+ sunscreen daily when using serums with those acids.

3. Mixing the Wrong Acids

Not all acids work well together. Using too many active ingredients in one routine can cause irritation.

🔴 Examples of bad combinations:

Vitamin C + AHAs/BHAs → Can cause irritation and weaken Vitamin C’s effectiveness.

Retinol + AHAs/BHAs → Too harsh on the skin, leading to peeling and sensitivity. (by experience 💁🏻‍♀️)

Niacinamide + Vitamin C (unless properly formulated) → Can cause flushing or reduce effectiveness.

Solution: Use exfoliating acids on alternate days and simplify your routine to avoid irritation.

4. Not Hydrating Properly

Exfoliating acids remove dead skin cells but can also strip away moisture. Without proper hydration, the skin can feel tight, dry, or irritated.

Solution: After using acids, apply thick a moisturizer to maintain balance especially if the acids dry ur skin so fast

When He wills to quench your thirst, He places a dryness in your throat that moves you to drink.

When He wills to give you something else of this world or the next, He fills your heart with a strong feeling of fear or desire that moves you to dua.

We think we started the dua. How do you know it's not the other way around?