Felicidad

I think it’s important to share this. I recently counted my remaining weeks and months until I turn 80. It turns out I have only about 2,700 weeks and 670 months left on this earth.

This realization hit me: we truly live a short time, and we often waste it on fleeting emotions. Yes, we stumble based on our choices, but each stumble is a lesson, and that’s okay—it’s part of life. Sometimes we focus on the negative, feeling unfortunate due to a single event. However, when we shift our perspective to see the blessings we've received and recognize the closed doors that lead to new opportunities, we can find ourselves fascinated by life.

When I was younger, I thought I would have everything figured out by now, but life is full of surprises. As we age, we encounter various challenges and continue to learn. People may hurt us—friends, partners, family, acquaintances, or even strangers. If we dwell on the negative, we can get stuck in those emotions. But if we view each experience as a chance to understand ourselves and others better, we gain valuable insights.

So why am I sharing this? Because if you’re reading this, know that you’re not alone. Everyone feels stuck at times. If you’re facing a closed door, remember that new opportunities are on the way—try to identify them. If you feel lost, take a moment to write down what’s bothering you and reflect on your purpose and goals. If you feel broken by someone, see it as a learning phase. What lessons can you take from it? Don’t stay in negative energy; use this as an opportunity to grow, set new goals, and heal.

Many people find true happiness in embracing independence and self-love. Some of us seek deep, meaningful connections, which can be hard to find in today’s world. People often guard themselves, making genuine love seem elusive. I once heard, "How can you feel the high of being in love if you're giving so little?" This applies not just romantically but in all our relationships. Happiness often stems from how we give and show love.

I once felt completely lost, with no direction during my teenage years. I made choices that pushed me away from God and led me into a dark place of depression. One day, I reached out to Him, asking for help to change my life. I asked for forgiveness and for Him to renew me through His grace.

My mom encouraged me to attend her church. Even though I was hesitant because I had always been Catholic, I felt God guiding me to this new path. When I was baptized, I experienced an incredible sense of peace and love that I had never known before. From that moment, God has been with me, giving me hope and saving me in so many ways. As I allowed Him to transform my life, I saw miracles and blessings, even in the midst of challenges.

The Bible reminds us that God is always there for us. In Psalm 32:8, God says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Even when I felt lost and empty, God filled my life with hope and love.

God will never abandon us. When we surrender to Him, He guides us and provides for us. When we face difficulties, calling on Him brings hope and strength. Isaiah 41:10 tells us, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

If you’re feeling like giving up, remember it’s never too late to turn to God. No matter where you are in life, you can ask for His forgiveness and a new start. God will send people to help guide you as you seek Him. If you feel alone or aimless, seek God’s purpose for your life. Jesus is the way to God, and through Him, you can find the love and strength to overcome life’s challenges.

Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”