It is very draining to be with someone that does not recognize their toxic ways. While I’m trying to focus on bettering myself which means coming to terms that I can be toxic in certain ways... youre busy denying the fact that you can be toxic too.

It took me a long time to learn that I have the right to feel anything I am feeling. I remember I used to get frustrated or embarrassed if I was angry or hurt, or if something was bothering me. I always felt like there was no reasoning behind or justification for my feelings. But you know what I’ve learned: that is really not the way it works. You do not have to seek validation for your feelings. They are justified and valid, simply because they exist. I found that belittling my feelings only belittled my self perception and self worth. And when I couldn’t see my own worth, nor could anyone else. You have the right to feel everything you’re feeling. Your pain is valid, your anger is valid, your insecurities are valid. Please don’t let anybody- especially, especially yourself- tell you that your feelings are invalid. And don’t ever apologise for simply being human.

Something I learned about people, if they do it once they’ll do it again.

With or without problems. Talk to god.