Whatever Turns Me On 💡

Out of instinct you reach for it the same time her pops do…sooo now her dad looking at you like..

Grandpa be like

i gotchu. here’s some of my favorite make out jams:

• Kendrick Lamar // LOVE (Ft. ZACARI)• The Weeknd // The Morning• Khalid // Saved • Daniel Caesar // Best Part (Ft. H.E.R.)• A$AP Rocky // L$D• Kendrick Lamar // All The Stars (Ft. SZA)• Majid Jordan // One I Want (Ft. PND) • Drake // Signs • SZA // Love Galore (Ft. Travis Scott)• Future // Selfish (Ft. Rihanna)• The Weeknd // Die For You • Daniel Caesar // Hold Me Down• Jhene Aiko // Sativa (Ft. Swae Lee)• Charlie Puth // If You Leave Me Now • Anthony Russo // California • Childish Gambino // Redbone• Drake // With You (Ft. PartyNextDoor)• Khalid // Location • Jhene Aiko // While We’re Young • Ty Dolla $ign // Love U Better • Post Malone // I Fall Apart • Dvsn // Morning After • Majid Jordan // My Imagination (Ft. Dvsn)• Wiz Khalifa // Something New • Joji // Will He• Majid Jordan // OG Heartthrob• London Richards // Far Away• SG Lewis // Yours • Lana Del Rey // Money Power Glory• Rhye // Open• FKJ // Vibin’ Out with (((O)))• The Internet // Special Affair• Daniel Caesar // Japanese Denim• Drake // 4422 (Ft. Sampha)• Cigarettes After Sex // K.• Ta-ku // Down For You (Ft. Alina Baraz)• Drake // Own It• Al Green // Let’s Stay Together • Deptford Goth // Feel Real• Frank Ocean // Pink Matter (Ft. André 3000)• Lana Del Rey // Million Dollar Man• MOVEMENT // Us• The Weeknd // Often• Chet Faker // Talk Is Cheap• Tyler, The Creator // She (Ft. Frank Ocean)• Cashmere Cat // Mirror Maru• Miguel // Adorn• Chet Faker // I’m Into You• Son Lux // Easy• Flight Facilities // Crave You• Chris Isaak // Wicked Games• Washed Out // Feel It All Around• Majid Jordan // Her• Garrickson // Yoh Again (Ft. Qole)• Daniel Caesar // Get You (Ft. Kali Uchis)• Common Souls // Arizona• Fleetwood Mac // Black Magic Woman• Sebastian Olzanski // Nobody but Us• Alina Baraz // Fantasy (Ft. Galimaties)• Alina Baraz // Make You Feel (Ft. Galimaties) • Jordan Bratton // Drugs You Should Try It• The Weeknd // The Hills• Air // Playground Love (With Gordon Track) • Télépopmusic // Breathe• Bryson Tiller // Don’t• The Weeknd // The Morning• Roy Woods // Drama (Ft. Drake)• Jeremih // Worthy (Ft. Jhene Aiko) • SG Lewis // No Less • A.CHAL // GAZI• Tyga // Boss Up• Anitta // Downtown (Ft. J Balvin) • J. Cole // In The Morning (Ft. Drake) • Maluma // Vitamina (Ft. Arcangel) • Jacquees // B.E.D (Ft. Ty Dolla $ign & Quavo) • NAV // Wanted You (Ft. Lil Uzi Vert) • Rihanna // Kiss It Better • DaniLeigh // Play (Ft. Kap G) • Tory Lanez // Real Thing (Ft. Future) • Tory Lanez // Traphouse (Ft. Nyce) • Ariana Grande // Let Me Love You• Jeremih // Impatient (Ft. Ty Dolla $ign) • Niykee Heaton // Bad Intentions • Devvon Terrell // Temperature • Jay Park // Replay • The Neighborhood // #icanteven • Bryson Tiller // Right My Wrongs • Jeremih // Birthday Sex • MINO // BODY • Beyoncé // Rocket • August Alsina // Porn Star • Sevyn Streeter // It Won’t Stop • Trey Songz // Love Faces • Kelly Rowland // Kisses Down Low • Maribelle // Who We Are • Jooyung // Wet (Ft. Superbee) • SoMo // We Can Make Love • Dana // Up & Down • VILLAS // Fuckin Round on You • Jay Park // Replay • Paloalto // Fancy • Lisa Lopes // No Pressure • Trey Songz // I Invited Sex (Ft. Drake) • Xavier White // Real Company • Beyoncé // Crazy In Love (Remix) • DeJ Loaf // Me U & Hennessy (Ft. Lil Wayne) • Chris Brown // Lights Out (Ft. Tyga & Fat Trel) • Jacquees // Feel It• Trey Songz // Neighbors Know My Name • Maejor // Get You Alone (Ft. Jeremih) • PARTYNEXTDOOR // Wus Good / Curious • Sevyn Streeter // Sex on the Ceiling • Bryson Tiller // Exchange • DJ Drama // Wishing (Ft. Chris Brown) • Ariana Grande // Dangerous Woman • Bando Jonez // Sex You • D’african // I Fucking Lust You • ZAYN // wRoNg • Trey Songz // Na Na • The Weeknd // Next • Reneard // Strip for Me (Ft. Juicy J) • Kehlani // The Way (Ft. Chance the Rapper) • The Weeknd // Tears In The Rain • ZAYN // PILLOWTALK • Beyoncé // Dance for You • Jay Park // Sex Trip • Usher // Lemme See (Ft. Rick Ross) • T.I. // Private Show (Ft. Chris Brown) • Justin Timberlake // Tunnel Vision • Kirko Bangz // What Yo Name Iz? • Hyuna // Wolf (Ft. HANHE) • The Weeknd // Wicked Games • Ludacris // Sex Room (Ft. Trey Songz) • Jeremih // I Like (Ft. Ludacris) • Chris Brown // Wet The Bed (Ft. Ludacris) • Twista // Wetter (Ft. Ericka Shevon) • SoMo // Ride • Ashanti // Only U • Timbaland // Fantasy (Ft. Money) • Rihanna // Skin • Selena Gomez // Good For You • Crush // You and I • August Alsina // I Luv This Shit • The Weeknd // Party Monster • Trey Songz // All We Do • The Weeknd // Reminder • J. Holiday // Bed • Trey Songz // Slow Motion • Mila J // Smoke, Drink, Break-Up • Usher // Climax • Jeremih // Planes (Ft. J. Cole) • Ciara // Body Party • Rihanna // Needed Me • August Alsina // Right There • Keshia Chanté // Bryson Tiller • Trey Songz // Picture Perfect • Tinashe // Party Favors (Ft. Young Thug) • DJ Boogz // #Aboutlastnight • Trey Songz // Boss (Ft. Chisanity) • Maluma // Un Polvo • The Weeknd // All I Know • Jeremih // All The Time (Ft. Lil Wayne) • Tinashe // Sacrifices • 6LACK // Prblms • Ariana Grande // Everyday (Ft. Future) • Maejor // Noir • Cherish // One Time • Lana Del Ray // Lust for Life (Ft. The Weeknd) • Trey Songz // Song Goes Off • 12AM // Save Me • Ciara // Dance Like We’re Making Love • Tinashe // Company • Corvyx // 6 Inch • Ariana Grande // Touch It • Betti // Toxic • SZA // The Weekend • William Singe // Rush • Halsey // Now Or Never • Yo Trane // Night Calls • Chris Brown // Privacy • Devvon Terrell // #Wcw (Remix) • Sean Paul // Tek Weh Yuh Heart• AD // Better (Ft. Wiz Khalifa & Tory Lanez) • Tekno // Pana • Dylan Matthew // Ariana • Chase Atlantic // Into It • Belly // You (Ft. Kehlani) • Trippie Redd // Love Scars • Eso.XO.Supreme // Power (Ft. Free5ive) • Young Scrap // Main Ting (Ft. Yung) • William Singe // Pony • TYus // Between Us (Ft. 21 Savage) • Moh Flow // Golden Boy • Sabrina Claudia // Belong To You • Fifth Harmony // Angel • Lana Del Ray // Summer Bummer • Chase Atlantic // Drugs & Money • Camila Cabello // OMG (Ft. Quavo) • Quavo // Cuffed Up (Ft. PARTYNEXTDOOR) • Romeyo Wilson // Angela • Nith // P.A • Daughter // Youth • Chet Faker // Gold • Jarrys James // Do You Remember • Bob Moses // Before I Fall • Daughter // New Ways • Fink // Make It Good • Florence + The Machine // Heavy In Ur Arms • Gotye // Hearts A Mess • Hayden Calnin // Summer • Jon Hopkins // Form By Firelight • London Grammar // Hey Now • M83 // Wait • ODESZA // Bloom • Phantogram // Fall In Love • Portishead // Over • Podfishead // Roads • Snow Patrol // Lifeboats • Wiz Khalifa // Remember U (Ft. The Weeknd) • The xx // Intro • The Weeknd // Initiation • Kings of Leon // Closer • X Ambassadors // Unsteady • Stateless // Bloodstream • Chris Brown // Back To Sleep • P-Lo // Make It Last • Ro James // Permission • Syd // Body • Miguel // Pineapple Skies • Pleasure P // Rock with You (Ft. Plies) • JR Castro // Sexpectations • dvsn // P.O.V • SoMo // Control • JYDN // R U Down • Chris Brown // Beg For It • Meaku // All I See Is You • Miguel // How Many Drinks? • DJ Luke Nasty // Might Be • Mario // Music For Love • Elijah Blake // I Just Wanna…• Mario // Let Me Love You • Chris Brown // No BS • JAHKOY // F N Sexy • SoMo // Make Up Sex • Yo Trane // Late Night Drive • Tank // When We • Chris Brown // Sip • Chris Brown // Who’s Gonna (NOBODY) • Kid Ink // F With U (Ft. Ty Dolla $ign) • Rihanna // Sex With Me • Roy Woods // You Love It • Tory Lanez // Say It • Marc E. Bassy // Made Love First (Ft. Kehlani) • SoMo // First • Rihanna // Love On The Rain • Chris Brown // Take You Down • Trevor Jackson // Rock Wit Me (Ft. IAMSU!) • Cassie // Me & U • Kelly Rowland // Motivation (Ft. Lil Wayne) • PARTYNEXTDOOR // Bad Intentions

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Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock. 

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.

LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.

LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

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Some good news, I’ve been talking to two developers now and got them working together, we just had a meeting with the guys behind an existing large (millions of users) site similar to Tumblr, with a vibrant and open-minded community, and more importantly, it has open-minded owners who believe in free speech. They think we can get something done here to rescue the whole community.

I’m not allowed to reveal the site name yet. I can tell you it’s mainstream, open to everyone, open-minded and welcoming. (It’s not WordPress or any site owned by Facebook or Twitter. It’s not Pillowfort, that’s in closed beta. It’s not Ello, that’s mainly for artists. It’s not kinkspace or fetlife, those are too specialist. It’s not jux, that seems to be closed. It’s not Soup, that seems still in development and too small.)

One of the reasons for delaying the announcement for next few days is they don’t want a “land grab” where people take the names of current popular Tumblr users over there (cyber squatting). So they are looking at ways for existing Tumblr users to keep the same names on the new site.

More info over the days to come.

The plan is, broadly:

1. By December 9th, announcement of the new site and how to secure your username there

2. By December 10th, an online tool for bloggers to copy their existing content to the new site automatically, with the same tags and captions.

3. Bloggers will need to copy their content across between December 10th and December 17th if they want to use the automatic tool.

4. My understanding is that after December 17th there will be no public access to any “flagged” posts on Tumblr, but the original poster will still be able to see the flagged post (for a short time at least). Therefore, the original poster may still be able to manually download a post to their own PC or phone, after December 17th, and manually upload it to the other site. But if you have lots of posts that will take a long time, it will be better to use the automatic tool before December 17th.

Please understand that these dates are approximate and may change for technical or other reasons.

There may be a few rough edges or not so perfect looking site design on the transfer tool. Everyone is doing their best. The main goal here is to help as many people as possible preserve access to their content, in the short space of time Tumblr has allowed us, and preserve as much as possible of the Tumblr community spirit somewhere new.

The new site will cater for photo, GIF, text and html posts. It will not offer video and audio posts, due to cost reasons - maybe in future, but for now you will need to preserve video and audio content yourself in some other place.

If your Tumblr blog has a mixture of original content and reblogs, or all reblogs, all of that can be copied over to the new site. Reblogs will become “your” original content if nobody else posted them yet, otherwise they will be shown as reblogs. The devs are looking at ways to preserve attribution of reblogs back to the original Tumblr poster, if that person also moves to the new site.

Important: your Likes cannot be copied from Tumblr to the new site. You will have to go find the same posts again on the new site, and like them afresh.

(Similarly, existing reblog comments, asks, messages and other user interaction on Tumblr cannot be copied to the new site - that’s just too much to do, in the short time available.)

If you want to preserve any of your existing Liked posts on Tumblr, you will need to either: (1) download the post to your own PC, or: (2A) reblog it now to your own Tumblr blog, and then (2B) use the automatic tool, before December 17th, to move your whole Tumblr blog across to the new site.

If you have Liked a lot of posts here on Tumblr, the gridllr.com webapp should be able to help you do steps 1 and 2A quickly, I mean download or reblog.

(Someone complained to me today about the appearance of Gridllr on a phone. It’s best to use Gridllr on a PC, Mac or Tablet with a large screen.)

If you have liked a post here on Tumblr and the original poster decides to delete it, or even to delete their entire blog, some time before December 17th, then that post will be permanently lost. So if you want to be sure to preserve any of your Liked posts, you should best download or reblog as soon as possible. If it’s reblogged to your own blog it is safe from deletion, at least for next few days.