Josh

While I believe that all Reader fics should be very ambiguous when it comes to the appearance of a character (unless tagged otherwise of course) things can get very tricky when it comes to things like character personality, choices, and back story.

Listen, unless you want to self-insert into the most bland character ever written who never makes a real decision or talks to anyone (because god forbid a self-insert character say something that you personally wouldn't say) you've just got to accept that not every Reader fic is going to be a perfect fit. There are going to be fics where the self-insert character has a different job from you or has a different family makeup from you (maybe they have sisters when you only have ever had brothers) or says or does something that you can't imagine yourself ever doing.

And you know what? That's okay. Not every fic is written for every person out there. Not every fic is going to perfectly adhere to your specific life choices, kinks, and personality traits. All you can do is acknowledge that maybe something wasn't written with you in mind and just hit that back button and find something that is.

for any address to twitter you can replace the “x.com” with “nitter.net” and you will be able to browse as if you have an account. Lifesaver.

i am a lesbian. ive identified that way since i was thirteen or fourteen. it is a very important part of who i am and my identity and i have fought long and hard to accept that about myself.

me writing FICTIONAL stories about men does not change that because funnily enough, fiction does not equal reality. as much as i post about the men i do, i can guarantee you if they asked to fuck me, i would still say no. because i am a lesbian, and lesbians are not attracted to men.

following on from this - im gay. not blind. i acknowledge that these men are attracTIVE. that does NOT mean i am attracTED to them. it's nothing more than an aesthetic admiration and me doing my tumblr fangirl thing.

also, it just so happens that i am interested mostly in ukyt right now, and the majority of them happen to be male! and i love writing fanfiction, so of course im going to write about what im interested in, and if that's men then so be it. it's just a bit of fun.

me writing smut about men does absolutely not mean i am pretending to be a lesbian. i can't emphasise enough that my stories are fictional and in no way shape or form reflect my reality.

come on, people. just think before you say this stuff, because it's really hurtful. im just trying to write fanfiction and have a good time on here!

throws willne edits at yous x