Sir & Rpdoll

Accepting patriarchy is accepting that men and women each have natural roles, and that things run best when they fulfill those roles. Misogyny is the hatred of women, and I just don’t think the two have to be paired together.

I believe part of the man’s role is protecting and caring for the woman! It’s never been about hating women, actually quite the opposite. It’s about realizing that I’m so much happier as a woman when I’m able to fall into my natural, feminine role!

So no, I don’t think the girl should pay for all his meals, be the one to always drive to him, put herself in danger to keep him safe, or whatever else I see on this app. I’d argue that’s quite the opposite of being feminine and submissive.

Be a man. Take care of her, keep her safe, provide for her. Then watch how devoted, nurturing, submissive, and soft she becomes! (Oh and of course use her as your personal sex toy! Which she will be more than happy to be if you’re caring for her right!)

It is a common misconception that women who abide by traditional gender roles have no idea what empowerment is.

Unfortunately, the fact that a lot of women feel most empowered by submitting to their man is often overlooked as just ‘internalized misogyny’.  

It is okay to fall into your natural role as woman. You should never be ashamed to do so just because of the expectations that others have of you.

Let him lead you. It is okay to feel more comfortable when you follow him.

Let him provide for you financially while you keep his home clean and warm with love.

Let him make the decisions. You will find that a great deal of stress is lifted from your life once you surrender the uncertainty of making the wrong choice and trust in him.

Let him protect you. Your body was not built as strong and big as his, you were meant to be defended – not to defend.

If you are a coffee or tea drinker, make sure to invest in whitening toothpaste or white strips.

Floss, it defines your teeth and improves your smile.

Moisturize your skin. I never realized how much of a difference it made until I did it for the first time and someone close to me mentioned how much more awake and lively I looked that day.

If you aren't big on jewelry, at least wear earrings. They can be clip-ons or actual earrings, the point is that earrings elevate any look and make you look put together. A subtle but profound difference.

If you find that a full face of makeup is too time-consuming, invest in a brow gel, mascara and lash curler, concealer for under your eyes, and lipstick that can double as blush. These few things make a huge difference in looking put together.

If you struggle with lipstick because it doesn't go on smoothly or emphasizes the cracks in your lips, invest in a lip scrub or gently rub your lips with a washcloth or your finger after a shower to get rid of any dry skin and smooth them out.

If you're looking to change your wardrobe I suggest one piece dresses over a skirt and shirt combo. It's a small difference, but finding one throw over that goes with your dress as much easier than finding a throw over and a top that match.

Invest in a purse large enough to carry around everything that you have with you on a daily basis. It looks much more put together to have one satchel that holds all of your belongings, than to be struggling constantly to hold everything.

Keep a planner in your purse that is color coded by the following categories: work, personal, chores, and family. This allows you to make sure that you are allocating adequate time to each of these four pillars without neglecting the others.

Find a signature nail color, or two, and keep your nails neatly trimmed and polished. Freshen up your polish every few days.

Find your signature scent — this applies to deodorants, body mists, and perfumes. You don't need more than one of each, just find your favorite and stick to it. It removes the complication of having to choose later.

In a world of constantly chasing the next new thing — find the hygiene products that work for your hair and skin type and stick to them. This takes away from the constant need for something ne.

Create a skincare routine — even if it is just a face wash and moisturizer. Use this routine for your face, neck, and hands as these places are most prone to signs of aging.

Another old text from my bdsmlr blog...

I'm sure it's overwhelmingly just a (rather hot) kink here, but there seems to be also some people who genuinely seem to think that being inferior is something to be despised, that to be inferior is to be stupid, to be worthless etc. Well, I am rather intelligent, I have a strong will and I'm quite competent in my area of expertise. I'm not worthless or stupid.

At the same time I'm owned and totally humbled by my absolutely superior Husband - I serve Him and his cock unreservedly, I am so inferior to Him. But that has little to do with my intelligence (I think we are about on the same level) or with me being capable. Well, I don't think I would ever dare to be so decisive at work if I wouldn't have the security of Him, his control and encouragement, but the basic competence would still be there.

It's okay for little girls to dream about having babies, making homes, tending gardens, using kitchens, Husbands, and loving a family.

Modern culture convinced women that being protected is oppression, but being exhausted, anxious, overworked, and alone is “empowerment.”

No thank you.

Accepting patriarchy is accepting that men and women each have natural roles, and that things run best when they fulfill those roles. Misogyny is the hatred of women, and I just don’t think the two have to be paired together.

I believe part of the man’s role is protecting and caring for the woman! It’s never been about hating women, actually quite the opposite. It’s about realizing that I’m so much happier as a woman when I’m able to fall into my natural, feminine role!

So no, I don’t think the girl should pay for all his meals, be the one to always drive to him, put herself in danger to keep him safe, or whatever else I see on this app. I’d argue that’s quite the opposite of being feminine and submissive.

Be a man. Take care of her, keep her safe, provide for her. Then watch how devoted, nurturing, submissive, and soft she becomes! (Oh and of course use her as your personal sex toy! Which she will be more than happy to be if you’re caring for her right!)