Why the unnecessary emo cuts? Is he trying to amplify the pity :(
i wanted to be polite, and i wanted to resolve all this without this petty ass bullshit, but here we go. if i seem aggressive anon, know that i am being aggressive, because ive tried multiple times to explain things nicely and calmly but your comments have all been beyond rude, and deserve no, as you say, pity
so. thank you anon for sending this incredibly passive aggressive, ignorant, rude, invasive, and unnecessary question!
lets begin with point one, shall we?
theres no such thing as “unnecessary emo cuts”. its called scars from self harm. its called fucking scars. people out there, even once recovered and happy, have to live with the scars of whatever forced them into thinking that they deserved that pain, or whatever forced them to feel so numb that pain was the only release they could get, and that if it means destroying themselves, then they were forced to believe they deserve it.
they have to live with that pain. and that reminder. so let them fucking feel okay for having those scars for once. let them feel okay for not feeling like a perfect human being. let them feel okay for trying to improve from harming themselves. fact is, you dont know a persons fucking story.
so its not unnecessary. in fact, i believe it to be entirely necessary. self harm scars need to be shown more as a thing that you dont have to be ashamed of. people feel enough pain with those scars. they dont need bullshit like this.
next part of your absolutely horrid ask!
how ironic to talk about pity with such a pitiful attitude. self harm isnt about pity. in fact, most people who self harm? the last thing they want is pity. they either want release, freedom, or actual fucking help out of the situation theyre in that is causing them to resort to harming themselves.
so take a minute out of your fucking life to think about how harmful your words are to people out there struggling to get out of the negative situation and mindset they might be in and into a better place for themselves. and think about the fact that when they do recover, scars are forever. but thats nothing to be ashamed of.
in fact the only shameful thing here is your repeated harassment of my best friend whos trying to accept himself and cope with the shit going on in his life. hes trying to get better. hes trying so hard every fucking day to get better and i see that everyday. the pain, the bullshit, and he tries so fucking hard.
you dont see that. because its tumblr. you dont see jackshit of most peoples personal lives. so here you are, an asshole with nothing better to do than assuming bullshit and causing harm to people who dont deserve it. basically doing jackshit for anyone.
get the fuck out of here.
- Mod Grim, who’s god damn sick of this shit and isnt having it anymore