I'm the hero of this story, don't need to be saved

• Journals instead of oversharing online or with the wrong people

• Ends relationships that don’t align, instead of changing herself

• Says 'no' to anything below her standards

• Steers clear of drama

• Prioritizes self care, health & growth

• Avoids jealousy & competition with other women

• Makes time for creativity & hobbies

• Values quality over quantity

• Responds with grace, not impulse

• Boundaries

• No calls or texts after 10 p.m.

• I have a busy schedule, don't ask me to make plans last minute because I won't be available

• Don't ever disrespect me, if you do, we're done

• My time is valuable, so don't expect me to rearrange my day for anyone

• I won’t tolerate inconsistent communication—if you’re serious, be consistent

• I value my peace, so drama or negativity has no place in my life

• My boundaries are non-negotiable; if you can't respect them, we're not a match

• I don’t explain my decisions—what I choose is final

• If I’m not treated with kindness, I walk away

• My mornings are for me— don’t expect immediate replies

• I won’t entertain anyone who doesn’t respect my time or energy

• I don’t tolerate passive-aggressive behavior; be direct or be gone

• I expect effort in relationships— half-hearted attempts won’t get my attention

• I prioritize my self care— interruptions without reason aren’t welcome