for the love of god cis people STOP centering YOUR grief when the trans people in your life come out and transition. “your parents are just grieving the daughter they lost” and that’s worth missing out on the son they’ve gained? these kind of cis people are so obsessed with gender and they think men and women are so inherently different that they act like I killed their daughter when all I did was dig up their son. I’m the same person I was but now I’m happier and more confident but you’re so distracted on your “grief” that you can’t even see me.























