âcringe culture is deadâ - an explanation
so iâve been doing a bit of thinking about some hate we got recently. ask was pretty much: âcringe cultureâs dead! fuck offâ. in typical khorra fashion, i responded with some salty commentary and âcringe cultureâs not deadâ.Â
but you know what? there are different kinds of cringe culture! wow!Â
-âautistic breakdownâ cringe. the breakdown itself is terrible for the person having it. but itâs not cringe. whatâs cringe is that some douchestain thought itâd be a good idea to film and post the situation on the internet. iâve said enough about this one.Â
-âbad artâ cringe. most of the bad art posted is some 12 year oldâs first attempt at drawing sonic the hedgehog or whatever. you know what making fun of kidsâ first attempts will do? itâll make those kids never want to try the thing again because they suck. we all suck when we first try something. shut up.Â
-âadults liking (x childish thing)â cringe. i mean⌠so? besides the whole âage regressionâ crap⌠so?! there is no harm in an adult finding a kidsâ cartoon or book or whatever entertaining (as long as thereâs nothing sexual about that enjoyment). you like something meant for kids because itâs nostalgic or cute or pleasantly weird? okay! i, khorra, watched spongebob and ate lunchables with delta in our first year of college. i also still read books marketed to middle school children because i enjoy the stories. go on, attack us.Â
-âanime fan cringeâ. now, this is different from weeabo/koreaboo/whatever cringe. an unhealthy obsession with a small part of these cultures, letting the obsession replace human interaction, unironic dinner dates with your pillow waifu? cringe! finding an anime entertaining and having emotions about some characters? drawing cool art of those characters? having headcanons? interacting with other nice fans? not cringe!Â
-even âemo/scene cringeâ. as long as itâs not the aforementioned 12 year old going way over the top and⌠i donât know, posting pictures of fake (tw here?) self harm for attention⌠so? kid dyes their hair, wears some black clothes, uses a few XD faces here and there? most likely, itâs a phase! and guess what? phases are normal! we all have them. go away.Â
-âabsolutely terrible and offensive art from adults" cringe. okay, adults can try something for the first time and be awful at it just like kids. but when a grown adult thinks itâs okay to draw like rcdarts and purposely create content that shits on people just for having a difference or a disability? gross. and a waste of talent if the art itself is well drawn.Â
-âuwu stargender trifoxself demiextragrayarofluxace-ishâŚâ mogai cringe. do i need to explain? it pisses off actual transgender and nonbinary people. by nonbinary, i mean things like agender or questioning. i do not mean kids who think theyâre reincarnated gods whose gender = galaxy. plus, this shit makes it impossible for bystanders to tell the real stuff from the bs - so the bystanders just say, âscrew it. all trans people are fake.âÂ
-âanti-recovery tumblrâ cringe. i do see this one going away, but far too many tumblr users think that treatment and medication are there to force them to be normal or âneurotypicalâ. they think that the best way to rebel against our truly dumbass system (america ftw⌠sighâŚ) is to refuse medical help and diagnose themselves and then just sit around venting about how awful they feel. thatâs not just cringy, thatâs dangerous. surprise, treatment is there to fucking improve your life.Â
-âm.a.p/nomapâ cringe. yes, iâm talking about pedophilia, so if you really donât want to see that, skip this paragraph. there are people on tumblr who think that itâs okay to be attracted to and even have sex with minors. dude. most 16 year olds, and quite honestly most 17 year olds too, donât think about the risks and implications associated with sex - not enough for the sex to be as safe as it should. a lot of vile-ass adults take advantage of that. and just because some MAPs donât tell anyone about finding children attractive, that doesnât make it okay. what the fuck?Â
-kin cringe. wow. shocker. i am in awe that iâve even thought of this one. so very wow. in all honesty, kin for whom itâs just a casual thing? kin who use the label loosely, donât associate with the worst parts of that community, and are aware theyâre not really their kintypes? do what you want. but people who do stuff that land them on kin cringe blogs? what the fuck?Â
-âtccâ cringe. excuse me, but what is attractive about a serial killer? maybe thereâs something wrong with the tccâs collective self-preservation instincts? why in the name of all thatâs decent and sensible would you make flower crown edits of murderers? how about these people stop? like. now. stop it. please.Â