I was surprised by the choke slam comment. It seemed an odd, and potentially disturbing, thing to say. Then you didn't react, and the farting comment left me thinking it was just a silly dynamic with a long-time partner or friend. Finding out this is a business contact was jarring, and made the whole thing inappropriate and potentially disturbing again.
Thank you, that’s how I felt too..it just felt like a really unnecessarily violent thing to say to someone you’ve never met. We’ve only talked on Instagram before and I’m in a relationship (that he very well knows about), but trying to start this weird dynamic when you don’t know someone in real life is just really alarming. Like I get being silly and weird or whatever, but this felt like it was taken too far and seemingly out of the blue..:(














