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Why do so many people think that vessels being nb is canon when they never got to choose their identity. They're genderless by default but it's weird to assume they'd all prefer to go by they/them or it/its if they had the chance to choose any other gender they want.
What i'm saying is that i think the fandom should be more accepting to gendered vessels. I understand that a lot "he/him" gendering comes from transophobic part of the community, but it doesn't mean we should oppose the idea altogether.
Personally i mostly use they/them on vessels but i've seen an interesting AU a while ago where THK used he/him because that's the pronouns they chose for themselves and i think it was really interesting! I really wish to see more of this.
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