Tickly Ticklee

Make sure they're nice and cozy

Or wrapped up super snug

And if after all that they're still not grateful... there's not much else going on this time of year, so you may as well dedicate a long, dark winter's night to some attitude correction.

Due to recent discussions of rather negative experiences in this community, I want to highlight some good aftercare routines:

🚰 Have some water ready! Tickling is an exhausting activity and all partners involved should regularly hydrate.

👐 Give the Lee a massage on the previously targeted spots! No surprise tickling, just helping to soothe the sensitive skin.

✋ Give the Ler a massage too, for example a hand massage! These things go both ways.

☁️ Lie down or sit up and focus on breathing for a while. The other partner can carefully place a hand on the upperbody to add some element of trust, warmth and comfort.

🤗 Cuddling and taking a nap! With the rush of endorphins, sometimes you just fall asleep for a short while, that's okay :)

🧘 Having some alone time! You may wish to have a moment for yourself to calm down and process what just happened. Don't let your partner just leave, give each other some space and get together afterwards - don't abandon them with their emotions.

🚿 Have a warm shower! Be it alone or together, it feels good to refresh after some steamy tickle action. Speaking of "steamy action", it's recommended to use a toilet afterwards to reduce the risk infections.

🥗 Have snacks or dinner together! Speaking from experience, after an hour long session, my hunger for tickles is replaced by ... hunger.

🎶 Turn on some music you like! Or watch some Netflix, anything comforting. Combines well with the previous suggestions!

👂 Affirm each other and tell them what you liked! This can happen immediately after or later; in any case reassure your partner that you're fine (if you're fine!) and you had a good time. Also, let your partner know in a respectful way if something felt off or uncomfortable.

❤️ Check in with each other the next day(s)! Sometimes the emotions hit you like a truck the next day, make sure you don't feel left alone with your feelings. Again, this goes both ways!

You should discuss aftercare before the session and make (food) preparations if needed. Some of these suggestions obviously require a closer relationship between play partners, pick whatever feels right for you. This list is not exhaustive, feel free to add your favorite practices too!

Remember: Aftercare is not optional! Not in a private setting, not in a public setting, not in a professional setting. Never.

Something that I think gets overlooked is tickling feet with socks on. Socks are cute and soft to the touch. Imo, a good foot tickling should start with taking off the lee's shoes but leaving the socks on and the ler would start digging into the feet. Bonus if tools are also used with the socks on. When it's time to tie the lee's toes, then the socks would need to come off.

Tl;dr I love feet tickling with socks 🧦

I don’t want breaks

I don’t want “taking it easy” on me

I want tickle torture

I want screaming laughter ignored by the ler

I want hyper fixation on my vulnerable body

I want to regret every ticklish spot I have

I want to hate you by the end

I want merciless tickles with no end in sight

"You like this, don't you?"

"Aww, you're blushing."

"You're so cute."

"You're such a squirmy lil thing."

"I swear, you're the most ticklish person in the world."

- forcing me to say things while I’m being tickled (sorry, asking for more tickles, saying I love being tickled, thanking the ler for the tickles, etc.)

- being told I have to choose where they tickle me or they’ll choose for me

- silly little tickle games

- being told how ticklish I am and how they can’t believe I’m really this ticklish

- the ler playing dumb “why are you laughing so hard?” “I’m barely touching you?” “Sorry does this tickle?”

- being told how I can’t go anywhere and I have no choice but to just take their tickles and suffer

- the ler acknowledging when they find an obvious bad/death spot on me

The tickling community has changed a lot on Tumblr the past while. Curious to see who's all still out there, new and old.

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