♡ Becoming my dream girl ♡
Thank you @2pretty for your amazing guide ♡
My dream girl is an improved and elegant version of myself. She practices self care on her daily basis through every single attitude and decision. She isn't dramatic or exhagerated, she's perfectly balanced and thinks before speaking anything that could destroy her peace or others'. She manages to keep up with all her college activities and business tasks while looking put together, awake and beautiful. She's smart and studies every week day for both college and work but still taking weekends to rest and find balance. She has the ability to prep beautiful dishes, she's very body-active, learned Spanish in some months by herself and has a lot of money invested so she can get her family a house. She's full of an elegance that comes from within and she shows a bit of it through her social media by sharing a sneak peak into her lifestyle.
♡ 15 facts about my dream girl ♡
she studies at least 1:30h every week day.
she knows how to start the day and she takes the weekends to slow down, rest and to prepare for the coming week both mentally and by scheduling actitivies.
she never misses any appointment and she does everything in advance.
she is well spoken and has etiquette.
she's always put together, head to toe and a beautiful bright smile.
she knows how to keep her house clean, organized and beautiful.
she is fit and has a great body control because she gets active at least three times a week.
she speaks Portuguese, English and Spanish.
she has saved $20k and she has built up the best investments.
her wardrobe is full of versatile pretty items and she wear everything with grace always expressing her true self. She doesn't have any defective or useless item on her wardrobe.
she never puts herself in danger, she always takes the best decisions for her own comfort and safety.
she knows how to balance thoughts and she thinks twice before starting any discussion that may destroy her or others' peace.
she keeps in touch with her family calling them every Friday and visiting her mom every other weekend.
she knows how to make beautiful and delicious dishes.
her social media are clean and they only add up to her elegant manners.
♡ Becoming her ♡
♡ Every day habits
Always take an uber drive when you go to unknown or to unsafe places
Get the groceries mostly online so you don't come home with heavy bags
Face washing and shower every morning followed by a nice and healthy breakfast
Study at least 1h for school and 30 min for business
Schedule and set alarms for every appointment a day or hours before it's due
Daily teeth care
Think a lot before saying anything that could start fights or disagreements
Always practice making beautiful dishes, even for simple meals
♡ June (1, 2, 7)
I will focus on getting used to having classes and to study again. So I must study every week day and be consistent on my morning routine. I must keep balanced my work and my studies so I really need to schedule everything on my work. I must start getting my body active again. On the first 2 weeks I should save 2 days for either working out, dancing, stretching out or to do yoga. Then I must add one more day. I will take Mondays to clean my apartment.
♡ July (5, 6)
Time to focus on getting furnitures I still miss, especially for the living room and for my bedroom. I will save 1k in my currency for that. I must get decor items for both and to make a little comfort space in my bedroom. My hair always annoys me because I usually feel like it's not put together and it messes a lot with my overall look along with my nails, I get to change that. My teeth are quite yellow and I'm hating it, go back to a beautiful bright smile lady. I'm dying to get my nails done but I keep on saving it for later so I don't spend money on nails. This month will require a lot of money but I'm ashamed of my apartment's look and I don't want that anymore, I want to be proud of it.
♡ August (10)
I'm hoping now that I started to slowly get new clothes on June, along with makeup, but this is the time to make it more intense, to get more at once and to throw out every item that I feel ashamed about whether because it's old or because it's defective.
♡ September (8, 15)
My birthday month and break from college, so I expect using my free time in a productive yet relaxing way: improving my Spanish. I will already have built a nicer enviroment, willl be already using better clothes and looking put together all the time, so I can also start focusing on my instagram, start making tiktok videos and maybe a Youtube channel.
♡ October (4, 14)
Time to focus on good manners and to work on creating beautiful meals. I will learn these mostly from Youtube videos and blogs, but traditional books won't be left behind if I can have any.
♡ November (2, 3)
A month to work harder on scheduling and doing things in advance so I can exceed 9 and make it $40k instead.
♡ December (1, 3, 9)
The last college semester has come, time for the last exams of the year so it's important to study every day and to get things done days before due. A hard month for business so both schedules should be aligned and I will end the year with more than double the first goal.
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known sources: 3rd pic, food pic, 1st and 5th pics, 6th pic














