What the F&@k is Love Anyway?
In the past, I have said that love is different for all of us. The truth is, I think I was just trying to make excuses for the partner I was with at the time.
To me, loving someone, TRULY loving them means so many things. I feel that if someone is truly in love with another person, everyone should be able to see it in their eyes... when they look at one another, and even when they are just in the same room. When they are apart, the love shows in their eyes at the mere mention of their partners name.
Now, im not nieve, couples fight. Sometimes they fight hard and ugly, but you can still see the love through the anger. Also, when they fight, you can feel how they are fighting with the desire to make something in their relationship work and they aren't giving up.
Loving someone is the desire to know every part of the other person... not just physically but mentally, emotionally and not dismissing the parts that you find dark or uneasy. Instead, you talk about them, try to understand them, comfort your partner and let them know you aren't running away because of them.
Traditional marriage vows say you will take them in sickness and health... loving someone is not abandoning or judging them through those times. You become their strength, their comfort...
I don't know if what I've said is right but I can tell you that finding someone who loves you, it's rare, it's a challenge and for those like me? It's impossible.
It's pretty much just bullshit. But that's my opinion.