Thinklikekandie

if i'm not feeling like you want me just as much as I want you, we can't work out bruh. Lol i'm not chasing you. idc how many feelings I have for you or who you are. i'm too cute, i have a nice ass, great taste in music, etc. if you don't want to fuck with me, someone else will.

I miss ninthwardjawn

society feeds everyone this false idea that a romantic relationship determines attractiveness or how adequate someone is. in the media, being single is often the punchline. it’s often a “hahahhaaha u haven’t found someone that wants to be with u. hahhaaha ur ugly” type of narrative. it’s not only old and tired but completely inaccurate. being single does not equal unattractive. being single does not equal inadequate. there’s nothing wrong with seeking companionship and a romantic relationship. we all want some sort of companionship. it’s human nature. but u have to realize that a relationship will not fix all of ur issues or any demons and past traumas that u have dealt with. u have to rely on urself for validation and for love. u have to love urself so much that u don’t need anyone else to make u feel good enough. don’t let anybody clown u for being single. being single is not something to be ashamed about. 

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