The Norwegian stag

It’s what his body wants, whether his mind knows it or not

It’s more pleasurable for him to be edged and denied than for him to cum – simple biology

I can do this every day, and he’ll stay aroused and excited every time

He makes the sexiest noises when I edge him

I love watching his mind go numb with pleasure

He gets so stiff and hard for me, I can’t resist touching it, and I want him to stay that way as long as possible

He stays in a hypersexual state, always eager to pleasure me any way I want

It arouses me to see him lost in bliss

Edging him is so easy, and it gets easier every day I do it

I want him to be happy, and he’s obviously happy when he’s on the edge

I love that he trusts me with his most intimate, natural reflex, so I trigger it as often as possible (or almost-trigger it!)

He fucks me so hard after I edge him for a few days – he’s like an animal, I fucking love it!

He thinks of me all day and texts me the sweetest things

He works hard, doesn’t get enough respect, and deserves to “zone out” for a while in my hands or mouth

"Some time ago you blogged about your husband and Colin practicing "semen retention". Is that still going? Why or why not? I'm a husband, and I just wondered what their experience is, since frankly I can't go more than about three days without either having sex or masturbating, and I'm 44. So I don't know...maybe that's weird, but I just wondered what's happening with that with you all. Love your blog, btw--read it all the time. Fantastic content."

First, thanks for reading and the conversation we've had over the years (this particular reader has been in touch via DMs at least once a month).

Second, to your question: yes it is still going to some extent at least. With my husband for sure--he aims to only ejaculate about once every 10-14 days. Colin, I'm not so sure about. Haven't really talked to him about that aspect recently. Ben? Absolutely not. I doubt he's gone more than a couple of days in between his entire life.

Now, back to my husband. That doesn't mean we don't have sex. We actually have sex more now than before, when he would "finish" every time. Now, we have very satisfying sex...and not just for me. I know he'd say the same as well. It can be better overall if a man doesn't finish...because when he eventually does, it's intense. Really intense. Meanwhile, those times when he doesn't finish, he still feels really good while doing it. He certainly makes me feel really good.

I feel I need to tell you a little trick. He normally uses a device that pulls his balls down and away from him. They're cheap--you can find dozens on Amazon for less than $20. But with it on it's nearly impossible for him to finish. Doesn't diminish his sensation during sex either. He's tried deadening cream, but that does diminish his feeling. It's such a simple device too.

Why would he do it? To ask him, he'd say that only finishing every 10-14 days helps his mental focus, physical fitness, sexual stamina, confidence, and just about every aspect of life. Ben doesn't care--he's like a young bull that needs to spread his seed. Which is fine...I don't need him to be some kind of monk that is self-aware. I don't mean to objectify him, but I need him to be a friend with a reliably hard dick and a high sex drive. If that means he cums in me every time, so be it.

I've said this many times before but I'll say it again: the more a man cums, the less he wants to, at least for the next few days. The more a woman cums, the more she wants to--all the time. That's not my opinion, that's fact. That doesn't mean that a man can't get into the position to be sexual where he could cum...it's just that if he doesn't, it adds to the intensity and his desire. Bonus points if he makes his woman orgasm without doing so himself. The restraint is sexy.