Yup.

If you are an adult on the receiving end of sexual attention from a minor, the only appropriate response is a firm, non-negotiable “no.” Not an “I would, but the darn law…” not, “maybe when you’re eighteen,” a “no.” It is your job as the adult to be responsible, and to not abuse the power differential between you. What the minor wants is irrelevant to your obligations. The only appropriate response is “no.”

“Just because a girl knows how to imitate a woman, does not mean she’s ready to do what a woman does”

depression is a tough bitch but so are you

ok but do you understand how exhausting it is for me to never get a break from me

It’s important to understand how your partner likes to be loved

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seriously the idea that bi women who discover that they’re lesbians and lesbians who discover that they’re bi are committing some kind of a betrayal of the respective group and reinforce existing stereotypes is a harmful stigma that helps no one and needs to go

it still blows my mind how much the whole coming out process is designed to cater to straight people. like when i came out to my mother her immediate response was “that’s okay but i still want grandchildren” and i have since had so many interactions where i came out to people and could practically see them doing a mental checklist to make sure that me not being straight wouldn’t inconvenience them in any way and it’s honestly so exhausting. like maybe the coming out process shouldn’t fundamentally revolve around heterosexual emotions? spare me the “that’s okay as long as you don’t hit on me lol!” bullshit. spare me the “okay, but we have to tell the rest of your family about this too.” nonsense. my personal coming out should have absolutely nothing to do with your heterosexual emotions and if you really want to make it all about you then you really don’t get to call yourself an ally