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she literally turned my world upside down but I wouldn’t have it any other way. she doesn’t exist here but thankfully through shifting I can go see her and live my life with her. it honestly reminds me of @masoncantthinkofaname since I’ve known and read about him and his twin flame for a long time.

I already talk with my twin flame & person through channeling and etc but I hope that one day I get to have a beautiful relationship with them in person. I truly love them so much and I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with them💘 here’s a visual representation of us which she actually ended up sending me as signs (she’s a masc lesbian and I love it lol):

topic includes: hostile communication, defending others from rudeness & invalid judgment and spiritual stuff

I think it’s silly when people try to come for me or act as if I’ve never been upfront on my blog and since this is being brought up again, I’d like to make it very clear that I’M not the one who was being hostile and hiding behind the safety of a side blog when being confronted with a very much needed reality check. now let’s continue this.

@99oscaars wanted me to bring this to my main page (although I’ve already done that before easily unlike her bc I’m no coward) but I’d be happy to do it again because my point still stands and always will.

a person (especially a poc) keeping in racism doesn’t automatically make them a racist. now her also being a so called “spiritual” person I was hoping she’d understand the nuance that comes along with a topic such as this with the wisdom that can easily be provided by a numerous amount of deities who exist here (spirit guides too)

whether you’re new to my page or not, you guys know I LOVE talking to the other side. I love learning and expanding my knowledge and what better way to do that then talk to the very beings who exist here or had a hand in creating us? they’ve existed here for many centuries and understand existence better than any human. which again is why I encourage many people to talk to their own spirit guides or deities they might know or be connected with because it’s just overall a very beautiful experience and helps us evolve as immortal beings.

but back to the main point. oscar does not know how to communicate properly with people on topics that require nuance. it’s absolutely possible to recognize someone else’s mindset or views on something WITHOUT being an aggressive bitch.

this all started when I responded to someone mentioning oscar and her hostility towards other individuals who were especially civil with her on @shiftblrtea‘s page. I happened to be scrolling and saw what they said and decided to responded to the anonymous person just sharing a similar experience not thinking much of it (also I’ll provide picture proof later on showing the hostility and also hypocrisy she executed) then later I went back to see if what I had said was posted or if anyone else with a similar experience commented but instead I saw a response from oscar.

now, I’m not gonna retaliate by calling them what they called me considering I think it’s stupid how society likes to use women’s genitals as an insult of being scared, showing weakness or not being tough (although that’s far from the truth considering it’s a strong ass organ us women have that literally brings life and men can’t even handle a fucking period simulator) BUT there is ABSOLUTELY hypocrisy in their statement considering when we first discussed this they only responded through their side blog and not their main one. so, I’m definitely not the one and I’m just gonna assume they’re projecting lol.

NOW onto how this all began and the hostility proof:

their post & my comment:

I then ended up getting an ask about the comment I made from this person. which then resulted in them getting attacked with hostility by oscar:

- also a nicki minaj fan, definitely not surprised but 🤷🏽‍♀️

also just to clarify, if I remember correctly (because I like being honest) at first I sent oscar an explanation through anon after my comment on their post that provided more perspective on the topic but at the same time I also decided to make a separate post on it from the ask I got (which mentions the deep dive but I’ll link it just incase anyways) because I wanted to provide more perspective in general to the shifting community since there’s never any harm in that.

now, when I made my deep dive post, I was very nice and just overall upfront trying to help a fellow person apart of my community expand their awareness. I even ended up changing some people’s or my own mutuals minds on the topic which I thought was great! because I think it’s important to not let self righteousness cloud one’s vision from the truth or the chance to learn and grow more (which is an ongoing issue in our society not just in the shifting community mind you)

but even AFTER I gave an informative non hateful/attacking response, I was met with hostility and false claims of my character:

so yea, I guess some people just either do or don’t have the brains to understand what nuance is and how it ABSOLUTELY applies to a topic like this. keeping in racism will never automatically make someone racist and thinking otherwise just indicates that there’s a very huge lack of awareness which is very sad on their part. When I first defended that anon all those months ago and decided to make a post to inform others I genuinely thought oscar would have the potential to truly understand but I suppose I was wrong. But again, it just proves that a person can shift numerous of times and still not be as wise as one anticipates.

you wanna know what’s annoying as hell when it comes to the loa community? the negativity and belittling of women.

I hate those affirmations that are like:

“he views other women as cockroaches”

“he gets disgusted by other girls that aren’t me”

and so on. It’s just SOOOOO pathetic to me. like if you’re ok with your partner looking down upon women or treating them like dirt all because you want him to be focused on you, you’re sad as shit. you can manifest LITERALLY ANYTHING so how about you manifest that your partner is obsessed with you, only you and knows you’re the best without having the need of putting women down like they should be viewed as god damn dirt.

me personally I’d be disgusted if my partner didn’t view or respect women in a good light because not only would that say a lot about them it would also say a lot about me and my character. so if any of y’all have this type of mindset I suggest growing the fuck up, getting some self love in your system and ALSO SOME THERAPY. 😒🤦🏽‍♀️

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now introducing . . .

the southern muse 𝄞𝄢

have you seen her? 5’9” thique and fine, what a tragedy. known as the Princess of Independence and to be the sweetest girl around in town. she sings every saturday at Hagan’s and entrances the entire room with her honey sweet voice and angel like presence, having the ability to make a loud place calm and quiet. and although at night you’ll find her performing like no other; strumming her guitar and moving to the beat of the marvelous music. during the day you’ll find her riding on her beautiful beloved horses Blue Jeans and Bullseye — when she’s not coming up with genius music and performance ideas with Miss “just a dancer” Kate Carver that is. She will also help out with selling farm goods from her god mother’s farm from time to time and even give freebies to her loved ones every now and then just because she wants to and just because she can. so, it is truly no surprise why she is so beloved by the town of Independence.