burgerbinger

like it's just pathetic that we still have to do this whole pretend-transmasc-lesbians-are-the-most-vulnerable-lesbian-demographic schtick when pound for pound i have faced far less vitriol and exclusion from other lesbians for having he in my pronouns or being agender/transmasc-ish than i have for just having a transfem girlfriend, because even just proximity to/acceptance of transfemininity is far far far more contested by terf type lesbians than any afab gender ambiguity has ever been or will ever be. i do not ever want to hear any affirmations of the "validity of he/him lesbians" or condemnations of their exclusion in a lesbian space before i see actual flesh and blood trans women being supported and included

you've all gotta stop acting like "overweight" is a gentle PC alternative for the word fat and not itself an assertion of the ontological wrongness of being large. Over What Weight Precisely

and it feels very much like a product of this thing where the majority of people cannot ever conceptualize fatphobia or fat politics as legitimate or really anything beyond a meanness/bullying issue that can be solved with a couple language tweaks and one plus size runway show a year. it's great that you know not to be actively vitriolic towards fat people, but if you're still calling us "overweight" and talking about the ""obesity epidemic"" and justifying our presence in the world only through the fact that losing weight and keeping it off is difficult so we should really be pitied instead of hated, you're still moralizing around our bodies and positing them as a problem!

one of the most enduringly obnoxious things about algorithmic feeds is that there is genuinely no amount of blocking and tailoring and "not interested in this" and "show me less content like this" that will ever ever convince the algorithm that you don't want to be shown content promoting weight loss

"this but with true crime" "this but with harry potter" "this but with fast food" nope! sorry, but no. i assure you that whatever has been pushed into your various social media feeds lately with irritating frequency is not as inescapable as weight loss ads. i assure you it is not promoted by every single website you frequent to the same degree as weight loss ads. and i assure you it has not done half the damage to you and everyone around you as weight loss ads. this is a post about weight loss ads

concept: feeders who love and dote on their feedees and take them on normal, non-kinky romantic outings. feeders who genuinely find their feedees attractive, even if they want to lose weight. feeders who know that it’s okay to lose weight. feeders who respect their feedees’ wishes

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