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Gwen after the 768th mistake: You’ll have a hard time believing this because it never happens, but I made a mistake.

I was a freak at the wrong person, and I totally understand them being upset about it, but I did warn them. Maybe I should have been more specific in my warning? but idk the type of thing I suggested.... makes sense for a character with the power the discussed guy has... idk

I can’t tell what side of this you’re on, because this is fiction. I asked if they wanted to write something fucked up. I know not everyone is interested in exploring the same obviously wrong fictional scenarios. Not everyone finds extreme power imbalance sexy, and this being something they would be uncomfortable writing is so very valid and okay. I don’t begrudge them not wanting to think about it, or blocking me afterwards, because again this isn’t for everyone, and choosing space is fair and valid. That being said, these are not real people, and if you are okay with having them murder and torture and rape is too far, that’s a choice on your part to assign entirely separate moral value to sex.

My problem is the way you went about it and the way you’re talking about it and I think it’s important to do your part in making a fandom a safe space, particularly when a majority of the fandom are children. In a book series where the good guys are literally written to be good because their brains will break, where the good guys are written to be incapable of violence a dark!grady would be one that would be about getting revenge on the neverseen and stuff like that. You can’t call asking if they wanted a dark!grady prompt a sufficient warning because that’s inaccurate to what you suggested. That’s also not asking if they wanted to write something fucked up, you can’t call that asking if they wanted to write something fucked up. What you were talking about was dead dove do not eat, and even if you thought that dark!grady covered what you’re on about, the warnings needed to be upfront first before the text not in the tags. A lot of us have been in fandom spaces for a long time and can know to block tags but when tumblr is 12+ and the book series is targeted at younger readers you need to be adding warnings better. For a lot of kids this might be their first fandom they don’t know to block those tags. But also your tags aren’t even correct, that’s not what cnc is. It would be a different scenario if this was a book series for adults but it’s not. Yeah you could go on about kids shouldn’t be on the internet but they are so we should try and make the fandom space safe for them.

I was a freak at the wrong person, and I totally understand them being upset about it, but I did warn them. Maybe I should have been more specific in my warning? but idk the type of thing I suggested.... makes sense for a character with the power the discussed guy has... idk

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i can't help laughing at the "you don't understand, this man plans for every fight!" line. because like. isn't that fighting 101. have a plan? "no no! we have to be careful! this man thinks!"

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