The Band-Aid Box

[Text: This system does not partake in syscourse!]

CANT HAVE SHIT IN THIS HOUSE

whether you're all queer, just a few of you are queer, you all have a collective queer identity, you all have different sexualities and genders,

you're systemfluid, your queerness is intrinsically tied into your systemhood, you have an "unconventional" queer identity (such as aplatonic or mspec mono or lesboy or turigirl or neogenders or you use neopronouns,)

you have trauma around being queer,

you're questioning, you're a tranny, a fag, or otherwise; to all the queer systems, i wish you the best pride you can possibly have, and i hope you and your alters, parts, and headmates are proud of themselves and their queer identities.

take care of yourselves this year, and stay safe <3

don't add dni tags to my post; anyone of any syscourse stance and system type can interact. pride is for everyone

we are not something broken

we do not need to tell you who is fronting

we do not need to tell you our names

we do not need to tell you our roles

we do not need to tell you our traumas

hey so full offence LOL but to choose one person to be the “figurehead/face/image” for DID is so fucking tone deaf my ears are bleeding.

do you really think one person can be the sole representative of this disorder?

do you honestly think one person could entirely portray every experience under the umbrella of “101 ways to fuck a child up” ?

do you really honestly think having one person with DID being the ENTIRE image for OSDD, DID, PF-DID, TBMC DID, P-DID is whats good for everyone?

just one motherfucker we’re all supposed to place extreme guidance in what a system can present as & what healing is supposed to be ? really .

for gods sake . the reason why there isnt a face to autism is because autism can happen to everyone. you know what can also happen to anyone? chronic & repeated childhood abuse. 

there should not be ONE face per community. a community is made up of several bodies who all manage to cover the entire scale of experience. to claim the face of OSDDID should be one person takes this away from ALL OF US.

theres NO reason for there to be one person defining the experiences of OSDDID, bc simply put NO ONE could experience the whole scale of OSDDID and know everything under the sun that can hurt a child.

its not fair to make the face of OSDDID one person. you could not understand the experience everyone holds in their own significant, detailed life.

people need to see people who understand them culturally, ethnically, religiously, and disorder wise- simply because we all have the right to know We are not alone in our lived experiences. that there are people out there who look like us and talk like us and heal like us.

Like we use Spotify, and have since middle school, and we've never deleted a playlist

So A) I'm constantly like "We knew this song for this long???" Or "I swear we've known this song longer"

B) "Do *I* like this song or does someone else? I feel like I usually skip it but damn it's hitting rn"

‘OMG LET ME MEET THEM THEYRE MY FAVOURITE CHARACTER’

our headmate is not a character, the alters in our system are very much real people who mostly don’t associate themselves with their sources.

Us misusing the message boards? Its more likely then you think !!

So you want to boop your headmates?

Well letme help! Just copy and paste this small snippet and paste it into any of your headmates message boards !

#### This user booped you !